So when do we get the post about the lady who couldn't buy dog food on ebt so she bought steak for her dogs? Or how about the one with the lady who buys $300 worth of groceries (or has it gone up to $500 now?) with ebt and goes out and gets in a brand new BMW (or Camri or Jaguar or whatever)? Or, I know, the one where the lady tells the cashier "I really need more money. Guess its time to have another kid". 
I know they are coming, they always do.
Most of you here have no idea what is like to live on foodstamps. Even those that "work in the system" many times do not have a clue. Its not easy. Your kids are still normal kids that want treats. You say "they should buy oatmeal". So, if your child hates oatmeal and refuses to eat it, you only have enough money to buy oatmeal or Frosted Flakes for the month. Your kid will eat the Frosted Flakes or will not have breakfast if you get the oatmeal. What are you going to do? Well, why do you expect them to do any different?
Kids will eat cereal for a snack as well as breakfast. Not many will eat oatmeal for a snack. So, she buys enough cereal, she takes care of a meal and snack every day rather than one meal.
Its not excuses its actual facts to say they may not have a way to cook oatmeal. Or mom has to leave for work before the kids get up, cereal is safer than the kid cooking oatmeal.
Do we really want to give the government so much control over one group of society? They are poor so we "upper class" get to tell them how they should feed their kids? Give them education and information but telling them what they should be allowed to make the final choices.