PROS- If you have a family it makes your life easier. Esp. if you get a DVD or VCR player & also get the remote that shuts the door, then you don't have to get out in the rain when the kids are older that is. I don't have that feature but I wish I did. You can cart kids around for sports, girl scouts etc..Also you can't carpool to functions, if you don't have the room.
Cons- none, unless you count gas mileage but if you get a family car you probably won't get a car that has terrific mileage anyway.
SUV's are TRUCKS, they are bouncy. We have an exploder, oops Explorer. It is a killer to drive, meaning it just bounces me to death, my back actually gets sore from driving it. I know you can get a smoother riding SUV's like the Tahoe you can buy the "riding package" which is alot smoother. I prefer my van. We have the Town and Country. Although we would like the Honda Odessey. The seats flip down instead of having to take them out & it has the best safety rating.