Whatever you do, don't buy a Ford Windstar! Or is it now the Freestar. I think they had to change the name because of how bad the van is! I have a 1999 Windstar, and while I LOVE the interior, we've had problem after problem with the thing. I'd never buy one again. Our neighbors also had a Windstar, and after a year, got rid of it and now have a Caravan. Same thing as us... problems after problems. I know one other person with a Windstar, and while she likes her van, has had several problems with it already. The Honda Odyessy is still very highly rated, even though the design is a few years old. They are coming out with a new model next year. Toyota Sienna is an awesome van! If I could buy a new one right now, it would be that one! I'd also love to have a DVD system in the car, but to be honest, you can buy better (and bigger)portable ones instead of the ones that come with the vans.
Happy Car shopping!