I hear you Nikole! One of the big debates on this issue has been whether or not a normal Reservist/Guardsman has been eligible. I am in the Air National Guard, and based on the wording on the site, I do not think I am eligible for a complimentary ticket. DH is active duty, so it is not really an issue for us, but it will save $99 plus tax if I am eligible. Based on a conversation I had with a CM, I am eligible because I did some (not even my full 2 weeks) of active duty during the eligibility period.
Just for the record, I annotated in my personal notes (like you, I did not publicly announce the CM) that CM so-and-so on such-and-such date indicated that I was eligible. I detailed all of the specifics (who I talked to, on what date, at what time) so in case the info was wrong, I had all the details in the hopes that WDW will honor what I was told. I would recommend that you do the same.
As you can see by my countdown, I will be at WDW in 30ish days. If I have any problems (or hopefully successes), I will post on this site.
Enjoy your trip!