Although it is very nice for anyone to give a military discount, it is often an underadvertised or non-advertised one, so you must always ask!
Rock'n Robin - I think if you write a letter to Disney about this, they MAY take it under special/individual consideration. Again, it never hurts to ask!
Even though DH and I are prior service (retired and DAV), we always appreciate the sacrificies made by the military families. It was never easy for us to be away from our loved ones for long periods of time, but the friendships we made while away were treasured.
I wish that every company/business would offer something to the service member and their family - it's a nice gesture and a TAX WRITEOFF for them!
Rae