Thank you for all of the prayers. DH is doing well.
Just a little of the history: MIL was not a nice person. There were many problems when DH & DBIL were young, like abuse. When both boys married she was nice to us DIL's for a few months then she accused us of being mean to her. She actually gave my DH the choice when DD was just 3 months old, "You can have her or you can have mom but not both." Well, DH reminded her of our wedding vows so we were "kicked out of the family". She even told him she considered him dead! This type of stuff has gone on for the past 19 years. She told me that she hated me and told DH she hated him but she wanted a relationship with our girls (now 18 &11). DH said "don't think so. We are a package deal." He tried to talk to her a few years ago when DBIL was going through some horrible medical stuff she said "I don't have sons by those names" and then she hung up on him. So that is where things ended basically.
DH took time to go to the funeral home before anyone got there before the funeral on Friday. The girls and I drove by following the funeral and there were 10 people. That was it. It was sad. There could have been many more but she had to be so mean. Then yesterday we took our girls to the cemetary. DH spoke his peace and now it is over.
I don't know where this will go, what type of feelings will rise over the next few months but DH seems to be doing fine now. I just pray that God has mercy on her soul and that this woman finally found peace somewhere. Wherever she is I hope that she is being treated better than she treated her own sons.
