MsDisney23
<font color=blue>Has cabin fever-induced dreams of
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Yesterday after my test, I went to check on MIL, the night before she told me her feet and ankles where swollen. So she tried to get into the Dr.'s they told her they could not see her until Friday.
She is 79, and has just came home from the hospital last Monday. MIL has Cancer ( Multilple Mylemona) I took a look at her and knew she was not doing well, etc. I could not get her to eat, etc. So I went home and called my SIL we decided that one of us needs to get her into the Dr. I called and was able to get her in to her Dr.
The Dr. told her she was dying! At her own hands! She has just given up he told her. The swelling is from being Mal-Nurished! She has her whole back and butt are very red, from sitting and not wanting to get out of her chair. All of this in one week, Her breathing is shallow and low blood pressure. I think the Dr. wanted to put her back in the hospital. She did not want to go.etc.
The Dr. said her Depression has gotten very bad, and that she now needs to be treated like a child. He does not want her alone at all for at least 3 weeks. I tried to get her to come home with me, but she got mad.
I had to take her for some x-rays, of the chest, and today some kind of test of the lungs. Now they believe they found a shadow on her one lung, which we where told is the cancer!
I called SIL and told her everything, I went to DH's work and told him everything. I am not sure what the son's are going to do. DH wants to bring Mom here! I have no problem with that, so we are trying to get a room ready for her.
I feel so bad for MIL, as no one should have to Pass this way. I have gotten firm with MIL and she is pretty good to listen to me. She knows and understands that I am doing it for her own good. I do try to keep her humor up as well. The Dr. told her it is not her time yet to die. However she has just given up.
Dr. told me one thing and I am to call him. I did get her to eat lastnight for me. I would not be surprised if Mom is not back in the hospital at any time. Moms cancer is termiinal, I hope God will not let her suffer.
She is 79, and has just came home from the hospital last Monday. MIL has Cancer ( Multilple Mylemona) I took a look at her and knew she was not doing well, etc. I could not get her to eat, etc. So I went home and called my SIL we decided that one of us needs to get her into the Dr. I called and was able to get her in to her Dr.
The Dr. told her she was dying! At her own hands! She has just given up he told her. The swelling is from being Mal-Nurished! She has her whole back and butt are very red, from sitting and not wanting to get out of her chair. All of this in one week, Her breathing is shallow and low blood pressure. I think the Dr. wanted to put her back in the hospital. She did not want to go.etc.
The Dr. said her Depression has gotten very bad, and that she now needs to be treated like a child. He does not want her alone at all for at least 3 weeks. I tried to get her to come home with me, but she got mad.
I had to take her for some x-rays, of the chest, and today some kind of test of the lungs. Now they believe they found a shadow on her one lung, which we where told is the cancer!
I called SIL and told her everything, I went to DH's work and told him everything. I am not sure what the son's are going to do. DH wants to bring Mom here! I have no problem with that, so we are trying to get a room ready for her.
I feel so bad for MIL, as no one should have to Pass this way. I have gotten firm with MIL and she is pretty good to listen to me. She knows and understands that I am doing it for her own good. I do try to keep her humor up as well. The Dr. told her it is not her time yet to die. However she has just given up.
Dr. told me one thing and I am to call him. I did get her to eat lastnight for me. I would not be surprised if Mom is not back in the hospital at any time. Moms cancer is termiinal, I hope God will not let her suffer.
