We recently did the Spirit of Aloha....
Based on our experience I would never suggest this place to anyone. Yes, it was ok... but not worth it in our oppinion. Over half of the show is just lost noise, and the food is nothing at all special. It is not that you cannot get any enjoyment out of this, the flame part of the show was great, but.... we left overall disappointed.
We have not done any of the other dinner shows, so really can't tell you anything about them.
I also think that with all the younger kids in your group, they may get more out of something with characters that they can relate to.