Except remaining in that lane until the cones is exactly what is recommended by people who study traffic for a living, since it's safer and more efficient.
I used to be one of those "people that try to merge at the last second are scumbags" persons until an experience I had. Someone appointed himself official traffic cop. I was on a road with two lanes collapsing down to one. I drove through this area every day and discovered there was a side street I could go down, then make a turn, and come out beyond the construction area without sitting through the delay.
The turn for the side street was about 100 yards before the merge sign. I did this many times but on this one particular day, someone stopped in the right lane to prevent anyone from driving up to the merge sign. I was right behind him. There was a cutout where there was a alrge driveway into a business place. I swerved into that and passed him. He sped up to try and stop me, almost hit me, and laid on his horn as if "I" was the problem. (I know I shouldn't have used the driveway to pass him, but I was pissed lol)
When I got home I looked this up and realized just how wrong the other drive was, and how wrong I was for feeling people shouldn't drive up to the sign. I learned:
1. It is not only unwanted it is illegal to block a lane of traffic. The other drive could have been ticketed for what he did. The other part of what he did as well was he was actually causing traffic to back up into an intersection behind us at a traffic light because cars could not clear the intersection. VERY dangerous.
2. Construction crews put the merge where they do for a reason. They need you to be out of the lane THERE. Not half a mile from there. Or 100 yards from there. Just, THERE. And when everyone gets over earlier it just makes the backup longer and more time consuming. Driving to the merge sign allows for all the available road space to be used.
3. Zipper merging is the way to go. If everyone filled in all available space, and this is important: and DID NOT TAILGATE the car in front of them, stop and go traffic at merges would practically be eliminated.
All that being said I STILL get over early......... I just can't help it. I'm honestly afraid of a road rage confrontation with someone that thinks I am trying to "cut" or "cheat" them if I stay in the lane too long. And as an American I have a very real fear that the other person will try to resolve their anger by pulling out a gun and shooting me. So I still get over early, but I do not feel any anger towards the people that do not, and I leave them plenty of room to get over so I do not have to stop myself to let them get over.