I think that with proper planning, you can take your children at any age. I just think that people have to be prepared to tour with a 2 yr. old. My DS8 will take his 4th Disney vacation in Aug and it will #2 for DD3. They both love Disney and do a great job. Because of their age though, we don't do commando touring. We adjust our planning to accommodate what they handle. I too wouldn't stay offsite. We always take an afternoon break from the parks and go back to the resort. I could't imagine the price difference that it would have to take to make me give that and the EMH up.