MDR seating for concierge... Question

wehavesix

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i read a comment somewhere that concierge guests are customarily are not seated with others in the MDR. Does anyone know if this is true? It's just my husband and me on our next cruise and I'd like to know what to expect. We did not request a private table and have no plans to do so.
 
i read a comment somewhere that concierge guests are customarily are not seated with others in the MDR. Does anyone know if this is true? It's just my husband and me on our next cruise and I'd like to know what to expect. We did not request a private table and have no plans to do so.
Yes, concierge guests are seated at their own table, unless they request to be seated with others.
 
It is almost always true.

We don't like it (personal preference), and we make a specific request to sit with others when we book concierge.
 


Ugh. Well, now I don't know what we should do. We enjoy meeting new people and don't mind dining with others. But, we have Palo and Remy dinner reservations 2 of the 4 nights on this cruise so it really only affects us on the other 2 nights. Maybe we should just leave it as is rather than be absentee dinner companions half the cruise.
 
Ugh. Well, now I don't know what we should do. We enjoy meeting new people and don't mind dining with others. But, we have Palo and Remy dinner reservations 2 of the 4 nights on this cruise so it really only affects us on the other 2 nights. Maybe we should just leave it as is rather than be absentee dinner companions half the cruise.
Sounds like a good idea.
 


Well, that was my first reaction. I can see that it is another "perk". But it sounds like concierge is too good to sit with those who are not. But I guess concierge is segregated in far many more ways. It just struck me as wrong.
 
Well, that was my first reaction. I can see that it is another "perk". But it sounds like concierge is too good to sit with those who are not. But I guess concierge is segregated in far many more ways. It just struck me as wrong.
Personally, I like sharing tables with others. I enjoy learning about new places/cultures. But, if that's what someone prefers (to be seated alone), then more power to them.

That said, "sitting alone" is really a misnomer, as the tables in the MDRs (especially on the Dream class ships) are only about 6 inches from each other. You might as well be sharing.
 
We had concierge last time and weren't seated with anyone else. We prefer that. Not because I have anything against it. But it's more for the other guests comfort lol. We have 3 children. They were 7,7, and 4 when we went last year. They were overly tired, whiney, restless, and didn't wan't to eat. I was so glad we weren't put with another family. We were miserable enough as it was! No sense putting anyone else through that lol. After the 1st night, DH or I would have the servers rush their dinner (early seating) so that one of us could drop them off at the kids clubs and have a date to ourselves (so to speak).
We are concierge again in December, but my MIL, FIL, and his sister are joining us this time. So there will be 8 of us. We requested to sit with them, they are family and can deal with their cranky young relatives ;)
Personally I think people that cruise concierge get a bad stereotype put on them. We are not even close to rich, we are both prior military, combat veterans. My husband is retired from the military. We put our pants on the same way everyone else does. We don't expect to be treated any better than anyone else. We loved our servers, hosts, etc. we waved and talked with the cleaning CMs just as much as we did the concierge team. Just because we decide to splurge on our vacation doesn't make us better than anyone else. Heck, we stay at value resorts at WDW so that we can enjoy the comforts of concierge on the cruise. I don't think it's fair for people on her to lump concierge as snobby, stuck up, selfish, etc. not just referring to this thread. It's been said in several places.
 
Well, that was my first reaction. I can see that it is another "perk". But it sounds like concierge is too good to sit with those who are not. But I guess concierge is segregated in far many more ways. It just struck me as wrong.

I think it's just a "hey, here's an extra treat" sort of thing. I don't like it so I try to not participate.

The one thing I despised on our first concierge cruise was the darned gates they had to the rooms on Dream. UGH. But they took those down, thank goodness.

That said, "sitting alone" is really a misnomer, as the tables in the MDRs (especially on the Dream class ships) are only about 6 inches from each other. You might as well be sharing.

First concierge cruise...Enchanted Garden we were in a booth, which encapsulates you and makes you forget that others are around. At Royal Palace we were at the first table from the main entrance, which had a big gap between us and the nearby table (and it was the jewelry-seller lady, a vendor onboard, who had that table anyway, so it wasn't like she was a raucous group) and we felt totally alone. Animator's we were surrounded, that's for sure, and smack dab next to the serving station, so that was the anomaly and we really didn't care for that table at all, LOL.

They were 7,7, and 4 when we went last year. They were overly tired, whiney, restless, and didn't wan't to eat. I was so glad we weren't put with another family. We were miserable enough as it was! No sense putting anyone else through that lol.

FWIW I'm sure there were worse kids on the ship, and it's totally possible they would have been totally different if you were seated with another family. They are terrific about seating "like" people, and having some non-sibling peers there might have made a big difference. You never know!

They have seated us marvelously with other families; once with a child just about DS's age, and once with two kids who flanked him in age. Having a bunch of annoying disgusting boys of a similar age together? BLISS! They kept their disgustingness quiet, cracked themselves up, and showed what terrific "eaters" they could be. The adults spent almost no time having to deal with them in difficult ways and got some nice adult interaction in WITH the benefit of different experiences and ideas and "what did you do today?" other than what a spouse (that you've likely spent all day with) can bring to the table LOL. For my son, instead of "sigh, dinner with the parents" it was "I'm excited to see the other boys!"

You never know! :)
 
You have a point. We honestly never even knew about how seating worked on cruises. We have only ever been twice. The first was on Carnival (NEVER AGAIN!) and we were with family, so we never sat with any strangers. Then this one where it was automatic for concierge to get their own table. We didn't even know about that. I don't think I would specifically request not to sit with others. We were stationed in Germany where it is not uncommon for random people to share tables. It worked out better for us to sit by ourselves this time around. My husband had been deployed for a year, came home, then sent somewhere else for 8 more months, then his brother got sick with ALS and DH was gone again for 6 more months out of state. So we really needed that family bonding that we hadn't really had before.
 
Ugh. Well, now I don't know what we should do. We enjoy meeting new people and don't mind dining with others. But, we have Palo and Remy dinner reservations 2 of the 4 nights on this cruise so it really only affects us on the other 2 nights. Maybe we should just leave it as is rather than be absentee dinner companions half the cruise.

We've sailed Concierge on the Dream 5 times with & w/0 our 2 daughters, & we when we dined in the MDRs (late seating) we were not with any other Concierge guests. A couple years back, when I was making Remy & Palo reservations, the CM & I were talking about MDR servers (our favorite had left DCL) & he told me they try to put Concierge guests with their most tenured servers. If that's true then I suspect Concierge guests might have tables all over the MDR. When we sailed over NYE we had a great serving team. Hopefully it will be the same for us in May.
 
Personally I think people that cruise concierge get a bad stereotype put on them. We are not even close to rich, we are both prior military, combat veterans. My husband is retired from the military. We put our pants on the same way everyone else does. We don't expect to be treated any better than anyone else. We loved our servers, hosts, etc. we waved and talked with the cleaning CMs just as much as we did the concierge team. Just because we decide to splurge on our vacation doesn't make us better than anyone else. Heck, we stay at value resorts at WDW so that we can enjoy the comforts of concierge on the cruise. I don't think it's fair for people on her to lump concierge as snobby, stuck up, selfish, etc. not just referring to this thread. It's been said in several places.

:thanks: Well said! We're Concierge on our Dream cruise next month and look forward to dining at our own table with our kids, but it's certainly not because we're "hoity-toity" or stand-offish! It's simply because we prefer it! Personally, we'd request to dine at a private table whether we were Concierge or not. To each their own.
 
Full disclosure: we are introverts and lengthy, forced socialization is exhausting. I'm sailing concierge for my first DCL cruise but even if I wasnt I would be requesting a separate table.

"It's not you it's me."

We actually discussed not cruising when I shared with DH that we might have to share a table - we too find it exhausting and no fun to have forced socialization either. We know there's no guarantees, but just knowing we could ask for a separate table was good enough for us.
 
Ugh. Well, now I don't know what we should do. We enjoy meeting new people and don't mind dining with others. But, we have Palo and Remy dinner reservations 2 of the 4 nights on this cruise so it really only affects us on the other 2 nights. Maybe we should just leave it as is rather than be absentee dinner companions half the cruise.

If you contact shoreside concierge with your request to be seated at a larger table with others I'm sure they will do there best to fill it out. If you do this make sure your server team know of your 2 days at Palo and Remy so they don't wait for you.

For me Dream*2 and Fanatsy*2 we got solo table for 2A late dining without even asking concierge.
 
Polite request. I see most posters have said... When they were in concierge. (thank you is most helpful)
Could anyone posting who hasn't been in concierge but just guessing an answer say clearly they haven't been in concierge. It just helps readers know who has had personal experience and who hasn't. It's like someone posting a trip report but never actually gone. I think the assumption is anyone answering is answering from personal experience and clearly most responses are from actual requests. Personally I have had seven concierge cruises I have requested my own every time, so from the process always understood you requested it, I used to request my own table when I wasn't concierge as we personally have had a bad experience with sharing a table and its a deal breaker will will not do it. My next cruise in the Baltic is concierge I emailed concierge on Thursday last week my 125 days asked if I can or should request a private table and the answer was they would take my preference down and do it. So my personal experience is you request it.
 
Being absentee....

Our first night of our last concierge cruise DH and I had Palo. Fed DS earlier and dropped him at the lab. We just made sure the servers knew that we wouldn't be there and it was fine. That way our companions knew that there would be others, and I assume they were told why we weren't there. But no one was having service slowed down while waiting for us.


Eta: for some reason we were at our own small table on our last cruise which was NOT concierge. Not sure why. We were disappointed. DS didn't get to meet more kids, and DH and I didn't get to meet more neat people.

I'm actually very introverted, but given how much time my family spends together anyway, and how it sometimes feels like we've already said "all the words", having new people to talk to is fun. As long as I don't talk too much; then I get that utter exhaustion of the introvert. But asking questions and learning about new people is fun.
 
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Well, that was my first reaction. I can see that it is another "perk". But it sounds like concierge is too good to sit with those who are not. But I guess concierge is segregated in far many more ways. It just struck me as wrong.
No not true that's quite offensive really. I prefer to sit as a family I did that non concierge and as concierge. We shared twice and once had a terrible experierence. Now my family are all over the place now my daughter in Cambridge studying. I only see her now and then we want family time family vacation, so even on ship we go our own ways but dinner is family. The time it went wrong We are prompt they were late held up service, we had a wine package they didn't, we offered and they took, no offer back.( an offer would be nice we may have said no it's ok). There was small talk telling us about DCL which was all wrong, we just smiled and didn't correct them unless it affected them, ie port departure time we would correct them. They complained non stop. My kids wouldn't eat their food as embarrased. Sweeping statements that Concierge are too good to eat with others is actually rude.concierge isn't seggregated on the older ships the staterooms are with others on deck 8.Yes there is a lounge and deck on the new ships. Everything else, food entertainment shore trips characters is all the same as every other cruiser. Next time I fly Ecomomy should I demand to sit in First class and have priority boarding with them?
 

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