But there are more "overs" when
DVC openly advocates exceeding the max occupancy. There are more "overs" if all owners subscribe to the philosophy that we can all do whatever we want.
And if you're OK with the "overs", then I hope you won't ever complain about overcrowding on bus & boat transportation. I hope you don't have issues finding a chair by the pool. Don't blame Disney if you get into your room late--after all, it takes much longer to clean a one bedroom villa that's been home to 6 people for the past week. You'll have to live with whatever lines manifest themselves at resort restaurants.
None of us is perfect but I have a hard time taking a laissez faire attitude toward violation of any rule. The rule that I may be so quick to dismiss could very well negatively impact others' vacations.
How many "overs" does it take before people have to wait for the next bus because the line is too long, wait longer for their meal or leave the pool area because there are no chairs to be found? How many pieces of furniture have had to be replaced because guests rearrange the room while making space for their air beds? How many people have walked into a dinged-up villa room because there just isn't adequate storage space for 5 or 6 suitcases in a Studio?