Cheburashka
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- Dec 25, 2020
I've taught both elementary and middle school for many years as well, and can vouch for the fact that most middle school students are not mean. Any middle school student who behaves this way needs to be given immediate consequences and monitored to keep this from recurring. This isn't normal behavior. It could just be the individual student's issue, but it could also reflect negatively on school culture. Bullying and aggressive behavior are more endemic in some schools than in others, and school culture plays a big role in that, which I can attest to as a teacher who has worked in multiple districts and schools.I have to say it. Middle school kids are mean. This goes not surprise me at all. I teach middle school.
Meanness & misery in middle school isn't inevitable. It's the result of poor socialization of children (responsibility of parents primarily & elementary schools secondarily), and a middle school culture that passively condones cruel and/or aggressive behavior.
OP, as a teacher and parent I agree with others that you should call the principal ASAP in the morning. It sounds like the school wasn't aware that this happened, and that hallways need to be better monitored by staff during passing periods. No child should be assaulted at school- if it were my child I'd probably consider legal action, and I would make that clear (in a calm way) to the principal. Make it very clear that you know it is the school's absolute responsibility to protect your daughter from physical harm during school hours. ("We'll try" doesn't cut it for this kind of thing.)
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