Well, part of it may be school stress related and I'm just the convinient outlet.
Just when I was ready to toss him out the window....
Huge argument about him going to help load the truck last night...he "couldn't" because he had too much homework.
Tough. He made a commitment, not the directors fault the truck was late, they are short people and everyone is required to help load.
His choice to do stage crew and spend time after school on that.
And then got to the homework.
I made him go load the truck. I went and helped load the truck.
On the way home I get the
"Keeping good grades is really hard!"
"I'm struggling with xxx" in school, casually tossed out.
A thoughtful, engaging conversation ensued with a fun brainstorming session.
He came home excited, in a great mood, ate and got right to work.
I even got a "thank you, that helped a lot!"
Had we not gone to load the truck, he'd have sat on the couch the entire time staring at his ipad...stuck in the same spot and in the same bad mood.
I may keep him after all.