Guatemommy
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Hi everyone! I'm a bit nervous as I only joined DISboards a few weeks ago and am not sure if I've earned enough of my ears for a Pre-Trip Report yet, but here goes! I stumbled onto this board as I was looking into booking a Disney trip and have been addicted daily ever since. I find reading everyone's trip reports as well as dining reviews fascinating.
The stars have aligned after a very difficult 2 years and we are finally able to take a long, overdue vacation. This will be the first Disney trip for our DD, who is also known as the Mayan Princess and will be referred to as 'MP' going forward.
Now for the cast of characters:
Maxine (me) 44 - been to Disney about five times - always short, commando-style trips
Andrew (DH) 48 - been to Disney twice - once to MK as a kid, and once with me in 2003
DD (MP) 4.5 - first trip and an avid princess-lover
I wanted to include our pic but am clueless as to how that works, so if someone wants to PM me with instructions, please do. You can see a small version of us in my siggy at the bottom.
Linda, my BFF who lives in FL, will be joining us for 3 days but more on her later.
Our Story - WARNING - this will be long as I am a talker, but trust me, you will love it - it oozes with romance, tragedy and ultimately happiness!
DH and I first met way back in 1979 (I know this is ancient for some of you) in high school. DH was a senior and I was a freshman at a small, private high school in New Jersey. DH was friendly with my brother and by day 2 or 3 of school, he introduced me to DH. I'll never forget it - we were at his locker on the Boys side of the hallway when bro called me over. As soon as this brown-eyed girl caught sight, I was hooked. It was definitely love at first site. Not so much for him - he just viewed me as a kid sister of sorts.
We stayed friendly throughout the year and even after he moved on to college. When I was looking at colleges myself, he offered to let me tag along one day with him to see if I would really like his school - that was just great for me - a sorta-date-but-not-really with my dream man. I ended up choosing his school and we basically hung out my whole freshman year. But again, I did not know that he only viewed me in kid sister way. I just played the shy girl I was and hoped that one day he would figure out he was supposed to ask me out.
He did finally figure that out, but it was 17 years later. No, you do not need to adjust your eyes or strengthen your glasses - you read right - SEVENTEEN YEARS LATER! We basically stayed friends all that time - long after he and my brother lost touch. (Actually, they stayed in touch only because of me all that time). I watched him work his way through relationships - including one very long one and he acted all protective of me through my myriad of boyfriends and dates. Neither of us ever found the 'right one'.
So to speed it up, we finally hooked up as a real couple back in 1997 when I had the guts to finally tell him I wanted more than friendship. Actually, my exact words in the car returning from dinner in Long Island were: "I see you in my life forever - I just don't know what capacity yet. I think we owe it to ourselves to try because it is obvious that we both have special feelings for each other."
We dated for about 4 years until we finally married in 2001. Life was good.
Since then, he has been with me through the loss of my mom to leukemia (suddenly and almost immediately after our wedding), a broken leg, my own bout with cancer, a second broken leg, a hernia operation gone terribly wrong followed by a year of infection and two more surgeries till it was gone, and one final surgery this past month, hopefully the last forever. He is truly my Prince Charming and I know I never would have made it through all this without him.
Now - Janey the Mayan Princess:
I could not carry a child after the cancer thing - I'll spare those details - so we decided that adoption was the road for us and Guatemala was the path to take us there. DH has always been fascinated with the Mayan culture since our first Mexico trip.
As soon as we started exploring options, we knew in our heart that our child would be from Guatemala for many reasons, but since this a DIS board and not an adoption one, I will leave it at that.
We first met our beautiful girl at 3 months in Guatemala, visited again at 7 months and finally came home forever with us at 9 months. There are times I can't remember life before her. She is a wonderful child with a great personality and more than any parent could ever ask for! DH labelled her our Mayan Princess. Some in the Mayan culture believe 2012 is the end of the world - DH believes that is when they will officially crown her as the Mayan Princess that she is.
We are centering our trip around our beautiful girl and all the magic we want to share with her so that is where the name of the TR comes from.
Next post - how I met my BFF, Linda!
How am I doin' so far?????
The stars have aligned after a very difficult 2 years and we are finally able to take a long, overdue vacation. This will be the first Disney trip for our DD, who is also known as the Mayan Princess and will be referred to as 'MP' going forward.
Now for the cast of characters:
Maxine (me) 44 - been to Disney about five times - always short, commando-style trips
Andrew (DH) 48 - been to Disney twice - once to MK as a kid, and once with me in 2003
DD (MP) 4.5 - first trip and an avid princess-lover
I wanted to include our pic but am clueless as to how that works, so if someone wants to PM me with instructions, please do. You can see a small version of us in my siggy at the bottom.
Linda, my BFF who lives in FL, will be joining us for 3 days but more on her later.
Our Story - WARNING - this will be long as I am a talker, but trust me, you will love it - it oozes with romance, tragedy and ultimately happiness!
DH and I first met way back in 1979 (I know this is ancient for some of you) in high school. DH was a senior and I was a freshman at a small, private high school in New Jersey. DH was friendly with my brother and by day 2 or 3 of school, he introduced me to DH. I'll never forget it - we were at his locker on the Boys side of the hallway when bro called me over. As soon as this brown-eyed girl caught sight, I was hooked. It was definitely love at first site. Not so much for him - he just viewed me as a kid sister of sorts.
We stayed friendly throughout the year and even after he moved on to college. When I was looking at colleges myself, he offered to let me tag along one day with him to see if I would really like his school - that was just great for me - a sorta-date-but-not-really with my dream man. I ended up choosing his school and we basically hung out my whole freshman year. But again, I did not know that he only viewed me in kid sister way. I just played the shy girl I was and hoped that one day he would figure out he was supposed to ask me out.
He did finally figure that out, but it was 17 years later. No, you do not need to adjust your eyes or strengthen your glasses - you read right - SEVENTEEN YEARS LATER! We basically stayed friends all that time - long after he and my brother lost touch. (Actually, they stayed in touch only because of me all that time). I watched him work his way through relationships - including one very long one and he acted all protective of me through my myriad of boyfriends and dates. Neither of us ever found the 'right one'.
So to speed it up, we finally hooked up as a real couple back in 1997 when I had the guts to finally tell him I wanted more than friendship. Actually, my exact words in the car returning from dinner in Long Island were: "I see you in my life forever - I just don't know what capacity yet. I think we owe it to ourselves to try because it is obvious that we both have special feelings for each other."
We dated for about 4 years until we finally married in 2001. Life was good.
Since then, he has been with me through the loss of my mom to leukemia (suddenly and almost immediately after our wedding), a broken leg, my own bout with cancer, a second broken leg, a hernia operation gone terribly wrong followed by a year of infection and two more surgeries till it was gone, and one final surgery this past month, hopefully the last forever. He is truly my Prince Charming and I know I never would have made it through all this without him.
Now - Janey the Mayan Princess:
I could not carry a child after the cancer thing - I'll spare those details - so we decided that adoption was the road for us and Guatemala was the path to take us there. DH has always been fascinated with the Mayan culture since our first Mexico trip.
As soon as we started exploring options, we knew in our heart that our child would be from Guatemala for many reasons, but since this a DIS board and not an adoption one, I will leave it at that.
We first met our beautiful girl at 3 months in Guatemala, visited again at 7 months and finally came home forever with us at 9 months. There are times I can't remember life before her. She is a wonderful child with a great personality and more than any parent could ever ask for! DH labelled her our Mayan Princess. Some in the Mayan culture believe 2012 is the end of the world - DH believes that is when they will officially crown her as the Mayan Princess that she is.

We are centering our trip around our beautiful girl and all the magic we want to share with her so that is where the name of the TR comes from.
Next post - how I met my BFF, Linda!

How am I doin' so far?????