Ok, for better or for worse, I just set up our FP+ times. I did have to modify my park plans slightly, since it gave me the option of priority parade & Wishes viewing only on our last day. This is our second trip in a year's time, so I plan on it being very leisurely, i.e. I do not feel like we have to see everything.
8/21 Epcot WS. Arrive at 11.
11-12 Maelstrom FP+
Tour pavilions until 3'ish. Pool time. Dinner at POP. Head back to Epcot.
Soarin FP+ 7-8p
Test Track FP+ 8-9.
Illuminations at 9.
8/22 MK. EMH 8am
Tour Tomorrowland because we always neglect it.
9:50-10:50 Splash FP
10:50-11:50 BTMRR (plan on getting there at opening of window)
Try to get into lunch at BOG right afterwards.
12-1p LM
1-2p POTC Bonus FP
Head back for pool time. Dinner at POP. Either do Movies Under the Stars at POP or head to DTD (if DTD, will eat at EOS)
8/23 EP FW. EMH 8am
Innoventions, Nemo, etc.
Test Track 9:10-10:10am
Character Spot 10:10-11:10am
Soarin' 11:10-12:10
Eat lunch at Sunshine Seasons
Head back for pool time.
Dinner at POP.
Putt-putt.
8/24 MK
Leisurely day. Maybe start with pool time at POP.
A Dream Come True parade viewing FP 2:45-3:05
Pirates Bonus FP 5:40-6:40
MSEP viewing 8:40-9:05
Wishes viewing 9:35-9:55.
This is the only day I have qualms about. That means I will get no other FP for rides that day, and since we are going to get there late, lines and crowds may be nuts. Or, maybe everybody else will have gone to the pool by that time!

I also wasn't planning on eating dinner at the park, so now I need to look into Plaza or LTT.