LuvLuvLuv's Memories TR Starts Pg 73 - Honeymoon Day 6.1

Day 4 - Last Day

So the alarm goes off. I hit snooze twice, but know that I have to get up because I wasn't packed, I needed a shower, I needed to check my luggage down stairs and I desperately wanted a milk chocolate pretzel with PB chips from goofy's candy company. So I try to yank her out of bed and tell her we HAVE to hurry. She wants to go down and smoke, I told her hurry and you have to figure out your Magical Express so do that... but quickly! So in the time she was gone, I packed everything of mine, made coffee, showered, dressed and put makeup on and went for a second cup. She comes back crying saying they're forcing her to leave at 12:30. I guess I didn't see the big deal because I'm used to it. My response was, alright then, hurry we HAVE TO LEAVE! Maybe she didn't hear me because she just on the bed crying and complaining. This wasn't solving anything. I was ready, I was hungry and she wasn't packed or showered. I could see this was not going to end in my favor. So I call reservations and ask what time Boma stopped serving breakfast...11--we weren't going to make that. Okay, what time does, (gasping because I didn't want to eat here) Sanaa start serving lunch.... 11:30---we'll take it. There wasn't much on the menu for me, but we had 2 credits left, no time to get anywhere, and I figured it's "free" and if I don't like it I'll eat at the airport. So finally she gets everything together, I call the bellhop to come get our stuff and she decides to unpack one bag and put it in another. I told her he's coming and she has to be ready... of course not--she was screwing around and he had to wait on us. Baggage Check was a challenge. Not for me... I've done this bunches of times. She kept wanting to be in my line and I kept telling her she had to be separate. She wanted to be with me... I'm like.... YOU ARE GOING TO PENNSYLVANIA---I AM GOING TO KENTUCKY---OUR BAGS CAN NOT GO TO THE SAME PLACE. This may have been my final outcry of frustration. ((Fun Tip: The Cincinnati Airport is in Northern Kentucky :) 7 minutes from my condo--convenience is lovely)) She went to the next line, questioned everything the lady was doing, repeated it back to her wrong, etc etc etc. I was done, checked, paid--peace out. So we had 10 minutes before Sanaa opened. She went outside, I went to the gift shop and got 2 boxes of cookies, a thing of cotton candy and a cherry coke--I had to use the snack credits up. All but the cherry coke is still currently in my luggage. So when she came back in, I was sitting in the lobby on a chair with my head all the way back like I was stressed and ready to lose it. She cried that she didn't want to go home and that she had the most wonderful time with me. This went on and on and I started to feel bad about all my anxious emotions from the previous 4 days. She said she wanted to do this again very soon :eek: She asked if I would come back with her and I told her yes. What was I going to say... no? :confused3 So it was time to check in at Sanaa, we were seated in their "sweet" seat overlooking the middle of the savannah. There was a zebra rolling around in the dirt and it was pretty funny. Reminds me of what my doggie does after a bath. Then all 4 giraffes walked by... it was fun. Our waitress was very nice, very knowledgeable. There wasn't very many options for my palatte so I went with breaded califlower for an appie, turkey club for entree and chocolate cake for dessert. I think she had a weird type of tomato soup, weird pork chop and the same dessert as me. I make breaded califlower at home all the time and I love it, so I was hopeful I was going to like it. One bite... fire, spice, burn. I didn't want to be rude, so I tried another bite... this hurt even worse. I couldn't do it, I felt like it was going to come back up right there. I pushed it away. I thought once my meal came that the bread on the sandwich would soak up what was going on in there. The sandwich wasn't bad except I was holding down what was obviously unavoidable. I didn't eat much. The server took off the califlower when she saw I didn't eat it. I told her since we were on the dxddp she didn't need to, but she did, and I tipped her as if it were still there. I ate 2 bites of the chocolate cake and it wasn't bad, I was just feeling a bit :sick:. At this point we had to rush out of there because her ME bus was coming. I didn't want to spend our goodbye moments hovered over in the RR... so I did my best to keep my composure. We got her stuff from bell services, said goodbyes and she was off. I still had an hour... thank God. The second she got on the bus I went running inside. :sick: :sick: :sick: I felt like I needed fresh air so I went outside to the viewing area and sat on a rocking chair. I talked to a lovely lady from South Africa name Christine. We talked about me coming back in 6 weeks, about how Sanaa isn't for everyone :laughing: and about transportation options like renting a car to make life easier. I think she was relieved to not have someone ask her what a wildebeast was. I rocked and rocked for a while. It was relaxing and I was catching some sun and some vitamin D. None of this would have happened if we ate at Cap'n Jacks. :headache: Once I figured I was getting sunburn, I went back in. As soon as I got up out of my rocker and started moving... it was back :sick: :sick: :sick:. I felt kind of bad because the RR's are super pretty there and when you go in, they're so zen... then you hear the chick that can't handle indian/african spices vomiting in the corner. Appetizing. So I figured the place for me to be was in a rocking chair outside. This time I went up to the shaded areas on the lobby level and rocked myself till the ME bus came. I was praying I wouldn't get sick on the bus. We made another stop at POP before going to the airport and I was getting nervous--I think I had one more round left before I was done. I get to the airport... take care of that--which was much more difficult when you have a giant vera bag and a carry-on in there with you. Not much standing room. This time I actually felt like a champion... like it was all gone. Sweet. So I get thru security like a breeze. I did witness the funniest thing ever. There was a dad who had a little boy with him... probably about 4 years old. The little boy wouldn't take his mickey crocs off to go thru security. He was dead weight on the ground screaming at the top of his lungs. The dad wasn't doing much to remedy this...not doing a good job at all. So security said, "pick him up, take off his shoes and carry him thru the scanner." The screaming didn't end. After the dad put him down after getting thru the scanner... he laid on the ground, dead weight and screamed. This went on as I went thru, put my shoes on and got my stuff back together. I had watched this for about 5-7 minutes and I decided enough was enough. I went over and asked if he needed help. He was juggling bags, carry-ons, a stoller and a limp kid. He looked at me and said that he had it under control :rolleyes: Obviously not. So I left and got on the monorail-ish thing to go to my gate since my services weren't needed. Once I got to the gate, I smelled food. Regular food. I decided to go with a kids chicken fingers and fries meal and a coke. This is what I'm talking about... normalness. I just ate small because I wasn't sure what would happen, and I knew Dave would want to eat when I got home. I was revived and back in action. Would anyone be offended if I served this type of fare at my wedding? I think it would be delish :laughing: Just kidding... I love steak as much as I love a chicken finger. :laughing: The plane ride was 2 hours, then I was home. Dave picked me up at the airport and we went to O'Charleys for some dinner. I had the Steak and Chicken Finger meal... how perfect... I think they made that meal for me. :rotfl: We talked about all the events that happened and I told him next time, he was going too. :rotfl2: I was exhausted. I was so happy to see Baxter and almost immediately I got in bed and snuggled up with my little doggie and the love of my life. My adventure ends there.

Now to figure out what I'm going to do with this wedding. I haven't heard back from Bill yet about the other possible reception areas. I had to hard sell the idea to Dave about the tasting and customization... but I think I'm winning him over if I find the right venue. I'm glad I had a change of heart. It was all of my disboard supporters that helped me thru my doubts and I can't thank everyone enough. If you're still following along... the best is yet to come! July is our 16 months, November is our 12 months and that's all right around the corner!! It's starting to be real, which means it's time to get down to business!! :yay:

Thanks for reading my TR... hope it made you giggle at least once :cutie:
 
Hi there, I just finished catching up on your PJ and have to say I really admire you for all that you've gone through and all that you're doing to make your wedding happen! Congrats and I'm looking forward to reading more about your planning and disney adventures. :goodvibes

That dress is very gorgeous on you and that headpiece is beautiful!
 
D, Im so glad you had a change of heart! :hug: And you certainly made me giggle...ALOT! Glad you felt better after your episode at Sanaa, Im such a meat and potatoes girl myself. Give me mashed potatoes and chicken any day!...Actually I was thinking about serving 'comfort foods' at our wedding..chicken, mac-n-cheese, mashed potatoes, etc. Sounds so good!

Cant wait to hear what you decide for your wedding! :goodvibes
 
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AND I L:lovestrucVE THAT DRESS! SERIOUSLY OBSESSED! IT LOOKS SO GOOD ON YOU! I DONT THINK I CAN VERBALIZE MY FEELINGS FOR THAT DRESS!! (le sigh)
 

Ahhh geez. Thank GOD your trip is over, right??? And I felt SO bad for you during your... sickness. :( :( :grouphug: At least the next time you go back, you'll be with DF!

And, that dress looks GREAT on you! Seriously. I love Alfred Angelo so much.
 
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I LUV-LUV-LUV that dress on you!! :lovestruc

It looks amazing!


:banana: I LUV your pun!! Thanks!!

Hi Deena :goodvibes
I could have sworn that I had posted on here before, not sure how I could have missed your PJ! :confused3 but I am officially caught up lol

& I just wanted to say that I know everything will work out for you.. I really admire you for working both jobs, hard work pays off and in this case it literally pays off. I have thought about taking another job myself, I just don't think I have as much will power as you do... you just seem very driven and I think that's because even though you keep going back and forth about what you want, deep down you know what that is. I know that your physical and mental health come first, but for some reason I just get this vibe from you that you can do it! I feel like such a corn ball but I just keep thinking about how every bride I know whether or not its a destination wedding, whether or not they have family backing them up or not, whether or not... (fill in the blank here because I can keep going and going...) go through this. You can't make everyone happy. And you know what? You shouldn't have to. That is why it is your wedding. Relax. Ha! I know that is much easier said than done, but I think we all stress ourselves out too much sometimes over things that probably under other circumstances wouldn't have bothered us as much. My Df makes fun of me because lately the excuse for my emotions is either I'm about to get my period, I'm on my period or I just got off my period so he never catches a break lol. But anyways, I think you should hang in there and play it by ear. Don't get too discouraged.

Ps. I love the dress. :)

Thank you for the words and for loving my dress! Dave tracks my moods by looking at my pack of BC... I keep it under the coffee table with my nail polishes, etc :)

I'm going to second that pun! :lovestruc That dress looks beautiful on you! :thumbsup2

Thanks!! :lovestruc

Hi there, I just finished catching up on your PJ and have to say I really admire you for all that you've gone through and all that you're doing to make your wedding happen! Congrats and I'm looking forward to reading more about your planning and disney adventures. :goodvibes

That dress is very gorgeous on you and that headpiece is beautiful!

Thanks for joining in!! Welcome to my adventures :rotfl:

D, Im so glad you had a change of heart! :hug: And you certainly made me giggle...ALOT! Glad you felt better after your episode at Sanaa, Im such a meat and potatoes girl myself. Give me mashed potatoes and chicken any day!...Actually I was thinking about serving 'comfort foods' at our wedding..chicken, mac-n-cheese, mashed potatoes, etc. Sounds so good!

Cant wait to hear what you decide for your wedding! :goodvibes

MMM Comfort food...

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AND I L:lovestrucVE THAT DRESS! SERIOUSLY OBSESSED! IT LOOKS SO GOOD ON YOU! I DONT THINK I CAN VERBALIZE MY FEELINGS FOR THAT DRESS!! (le sigh)

Not gonna lie, I was wondering if you missed it or didn't like it when you didn't mention it above :rotfl: Thanks for :lovestruc'ing it! The more I look at it, the more I love it!

Ahhh geez. Thank GOD your trip is over, right??? And I felt SO bad for you during your... sickness. :( :( :grouphug: At least the next time you go back, you'll be with DF!

And, that dress looks GREAT on you! Seriously. I love Alfred Angelo so much.

Thanks!! It's good to be home!! When we go back to Kidani in a couple weeks... no matter how pressed for time we are--no Sanaa!! I never gave AA much thought, but I'm glad I gave it a try!

Fabulous pictures! Fabulous headpiece! IN LOVE WITH YOUR DRESS! <3 <3 <3

Thanks!! I'm sooooooo obsessed with the headpiece!!

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So GOOD/GREAT news!! I'm a DVC point renting NINJA! Flights for our days were too expensive, rent-a-cars/gas were too expensive, but if we went 2 days earlier... it saved a massive amount of $$ on airfare. I rented 2 nights in a studio at Saratoga Springs on the cheap! Now were going for 9 nights/10 days for the same price at 7 nights!! :banana: I think it's a win!! It'll be the longest vaca I've had in a while!! We're so excited. I've never stayed at Saratoga, but I figured it would be nice to be close to DD on the arrival night, and Typhoon Lagoon the next day. Since we have an extra day, I'm making it a full day of Typhoon Lagoon. I want to lay out, get a tan and get knocked over by waves all day. We're always in a rush there to get stuff done and get to lunch... forget that.... I make the plans around here :thumbsup2

I got an opening shift today, so I had a couple hours with Dave before he had to go to work. We watched The Princess and the Frog, and UP. We had never seen either so we checked them out on Netflix. It was nice to spend some time together on a Saturday, because that NEVER happens. I was trying to explain that I was seeing a lot of UP inspired stuff and I didn't know anything about it. It was cute... I can see why it's inspired so many!

Going along with my massive planning ideas this week I've been thinking of something else. I love Misty's photography--I love it with all my heart and I think she is amazingly talented.... just wondering if I should explore other options. I feel like we should have a small engagement shoot to get to know the photographer--but the e-shoot plus the price of the wedding won't be possible. Again... decisions decisions. It won't hurt to look, but it doesn't mean I'll change my mind.

So I think thats all for now. I hope to hear from Bill this week about the reception. I can't imagine how it'll feel when I need to make final decisions. Since I've been back I've felt like my head is spinning. :eek:

On a side note... if anyone has the app WordsWithFriends... my screen name is: TinaDeena
I'm a bit obsessed with it, and love to play. My friends call me TinaDeena because my phone bill used to come with the name Tina Deenatest@ (don't want my whole name to be searchable :goodvibes). I couldn't convince the person on the phone that my first name was Deena and my last name was Test@. She was certain my first name was Tina, and what I was spelling was my full last name. It was pretty hilarious and it just stuck with my friends. Start a game with me... it's fun!

Alright, seriously... bed time! Night Night!
 
So glad you and Dave got some time together this weekend. I love the Princess and the Frog! Especially since Im from Louisiana, and alot of the humor of it is stuff that you might not catch on to if you dont know a lot about it! I havent seen Up! yet either, I really need to.

I really know what you mean about people not giving up...it can be such a pain in the neck and a real problem! Hang in there!
 
Your updates are so entertaining I admire your writing style! And thanks for posting photos. Pretty, pretty dress (luv,luv,luv the pick ups!) So is that THE dress for you??????
 
So glad you and Dave got some time together this weekend. I love the Princess and the Frog! Especially since Im from Louisiana, and alot of the humor of it is stuff that you might not catch on to if you dont know a lot about it! I havent seen Up! yet either, I really need to.

I really know what you mean about people not giving up...it can be such a pain in the neck and a real problem! Hang in there!

you def need to see up!! after much complaining... i got 3 sundays off in april -- so more dave time :cutie: yay!!

Your updates are so entertaining I admire your writing style! And thanks for posting photos. Pretty, pretty dress (luv,luv,luv the pick ups!) So is that THE dress for you??????

thank you so much :lovestruc i'm almost positive this is the dress... but since you've been reading along, you know i can change my mind at the last minute :)

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So I've been pretty laid back when it comes to contacting DFTW... but when I send an email on Wednesday of last week, it's Tuesday of this week and nothing? I'm getting a taste of what I'm in for. They've probably been reading my blog, knowing I'm indecisive and that I was on the fence about dropping down... well guess what.... I'm not dropping down--write me back! Even if it was a simple, "I'm working on it" - at least I know my email isn't in the abyss. It's almost April, May is a blur between vacation, catching up from vacation, a work event and Memorial Day when my family will most likely visit. Then there's June... and I have to have decisions by July 5. I'm running out of decision making time. I'm regretting not going to the reception tour at the showcase to see other options--I also wouldn't have got trampled trying to get a broken flip flop during the running of the bulls.

This week I will be working on my budget for the remainder of the year. I have my new rates of pay for both jobs so I can accurately look at everything. My plan for this year is to put a major down on our hotel stay, get our wedding bands, put $ on a photographer, pay $2000 to DFTW and possibly my dress and accessories. We're still planning November, and that should be about $2600. We'll see how well I do over the summer with savings and paying things down. I'm rambling because I was hoping an email would come and I could delete my worries from above... but it's not here and I'm anxious to go over my budget. So bye for now and I hope to update soon!!
 
I have loved reading along with your PJ! You are HILARIOUS!!! I am also indecisive, so I feel your pain!! Hopefully you get emailed back from DFTW soon!!

PS I found you on words with friends! I'm Princess_Kimmy! I'm obsessed with it too, even though I suck at it! I'm slowly getting better!
 
I haven't posted on here before, but I have been reading your planning journal, and I just wanted to comment on your trip with your stepmom.

Congrats on making it out alive! I was cringing along with you when you were mentioning the pushy/interrupting moments of her interaction with the CMs at the restaurants, etc. I have a work colleague who acts the same way to wait staff when we have business dining functions, and you are right that trying to shush them or get them to stop makes even more of a scene, and you just want to bury your head in the sand! The funny thing is that the rest of us are aware of his entitlement behavior and generally go out of our way to be nice to the waiter/waitress to make up for him.

Also, about the smoking thing. I was reading along thinking well at least you managed to convince her that there were "designated" smoking areas, and she wasn't one of those people who think the rules apply to everyone but them and that they can smoke any and everywhere like on your balcony, standing in line for the buses, randomly walking around the parks! So at least she retained that, even if she didn't understand/believe any other directions and info you gave her. ;)
 
I have loved reading along with your PJ! You are HILARIOUS!!! I am also indecisive, so I feel your pain!! Hopefully you get emailed back from DFTW soon!!

PS I found you on words with friends! I'm Princess_Kimmy! I'm obsessed with it too, even though I suck at it! I'm slowly getting better!

Thanks for joining in!! Still no email as of now :( Yay for a new Words competitor! My phone doesn't work at my day job all the time so I'm more of a night player :laughing:

I haven't posted on here before, but I have been reading your planning journal, and I just wanted to comment on your trip with your stepmom.

Congrats on making it out alive! I was cringing along with you when you were mentioning the pushy/interrupting moments of her interaction with the CMs at the restaurants, etc. I have a work colleague who acts the same way to wait staff when we have business dining functions, and you are right that trying to shush them or get them to stop makes even more of a scene, and you just want to bury your head in the sand! The funny thing is that the rest of us are aware of his entitlement behavior and generally go out of our way to be nice to the waiter/waitress to make up for him.

Also, about the smoking thing. I was reading along thinking well at least you managed to convince her that there were "designated" smoking areas, and she wasn't one of those people who think the rules apply to everyone but them and that they can smoke any and everywhere like on your balcony, standing in line for the buses, randomly walking around the parks! So at least she retained that, even if she didn't understand/believe any other directions and info you gave her. ;)

Well it did take a day to break her of that. I told her she would get fined and that I wasn't paying for it :laughing: I'm assuming that's true, but I kinda made it up. Thanks for reading!!

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So here's my funny for the day: They may have to cancel my 10 year reunion because only 11 couples are going, which means 12 (out of 88) people from my class are going (since one of the couples are married). I find this hilarious. At least I'm not the only one not interested in one night of interaction with the most screwed up people you'll ever meet. None of us got along then... why would I pay to take a trip to PA, pay for the meal and lose time from work to act like I cared--I have facebook if I feel like nosing in someone's business.

Well as much as I don't want to get on with my day... I must. I have to go clean out my vehicle (lol funny word) on my lunch. Tomorrow is Reds Opening Day whichs means strangers will be parking in our garage. We are directly across from the ball park so it will be like a mad house. It is nice to see inside the park from our conference rooms though :) Since I pretty much live out of my car.... I have all kinds of crazy in there--a theive's delight.

I'm still working on my budget. I took a break from it yesterday to make a list of stuff I'm allergic to, don't like... and want to try for food. It was on my brain so I went with it. I also want to make a list of pictures that I want. I'm still on the fence about the MK shoot... I don't want to get "re-ready" and we take terrible pix anyway... that's a considerable amount of money to spend on people who don't take pictures very well. I don't even care much about the castle pix.... I want pictures in the teacups!! Now with Sarah's inspiration, I think I may look into the Owner's locker and start putting stuff in it. I am going to make a list of all that too. I hope my stepmom is almost done with my passporters book because I could sure use it while I'm at work. I want it back!! She probably hasn't opened it yet. Well that's all for today :wizard: Have a good one!
 
Whats the owner's locker?! Glad I could be of inspiration? Now what did I inspire? :rotfl2:--using context clues im assuming its like a storage unit? lol, im so clueless!
 
Whats the owner's locker?! Glad I could be of inspiration? Now what did I inspire? :rotfl2:--using context clues im assuming its like a storage unit? lol, im so clueless!

www.ownerslocker.com

they are giant purple crates that this company drops off directly to your hotel, then picks them up when you leave. probably a lifesaver for dvc people.
 
Alrighty! So I got an email back. It's ironic how you send off an email labeled "Questions" only to get answers back that will prompt more questions. What should my reply email be labeled? "More Questions?"

So the room that I found online and loved--the Palm Beach Boardroom is not available for Food and Beverage. This makes me :sad1:. I'm not uber upset because I kind of figured that... I was just wondering.

I expressed my concern about the lack of tasting at the CG and he suggested we eat at the restaurant. We do that every trip and we love it... but when I look at all these menus they are soooooooooo different. I really don't think it's the same. I still want a tasting... maybe because I feel like it's owed to me :rotfl2:

He said the Commander's Terrace is mainly used for Escape and suggested the Summerhouse. What I like about this statement is the word "mainly". I feel like if I dig my heels in I could manage to make it work... but do I want to go thru all of that :confused3 He said we could set up a call next week to work thru some of this. I like that idea.

So I started going thru reception sites for the 58th time in the past 2 weeks and tried to work off of his Summerhouse idea. I saw recent pix of a couple that used a couch and high tables and it was BEAUTIFUL. I started to imagine it with my colors, tried to work out the timing for afternoon so we wouldn't freeze in November. Then I realize my ideas are costing $$. :headache: I wanted a violinist at my reception, but would you hear it out in the open with people walking by, etc? What's the backup plan for weather? Can Mickey and Minnie be there since its outdoors in the resort? It would have to be a buffet do I want that? Are the bugs gonna get me? Is there a smoking area for my stepmom :lmao: :lmao: Just kidding... checking to see if you're still awake :) Will my floral ideas be too formal for the outside? Will black and silver be too bland for the area?? The little wheels in my brain have been all scattered since 11:00am when I got the email. I tried not to think of it over lunch since we were discussing work stuff... but I kept thinking about a cool picture on the couch with Mickey and Minnie. But then what about Fireworks?? I could say a prayer that they're early at 8:00 that night... it's been done before in November :littleangel: and just walk over to Narcoossee's Landing. Is outside just too risky? Will my family or Dave hate this idea? I'm tired of selling ideas to people and not getting commission for my work :laughing:

I threw the idea of switching to the Epcot side of the world for more options, but I just don't wanna :( There are so many pix around the GF, CR and Poly that I want that it would just add more grief and $$ for photography time. I love the WP and if I could just use the dang Commander's Terrace life would be peachy. Now I got the idea of that couch in my head. I showed it to Dave a little while ago and he thought it was sweet. He actually liked it, but if he gets set on it and I can't hold up the financial end--then I'm gonna be up a creek without a paddle. :eek: I looked thru all the ballrooms again and they're sooooo not us. The Napa Room was "us". The Napa Room still is "us".... but I want other menu options. :headache: :headache: :headache: That's what I feel like.

Maybe what I need is a suggestion. What is your vision for us, lol?? Is there something I'm not thinking of?? By the time we change everything around we should have 15-25 people. We're still wanting to stick with Black and Silver and sticking with a modern theming with White Calla Lillies. I won't see Dave until Sunday afternoon because we work/sleep opposites until then, but I'm hoping to corner him and give him some options before I talk to Bill next week. I want him involved, but I feel like I'm going to need to make the decisions if he doesn't speak up.

Okay, I have to deal with some work drama so that's all for now. I would love to hear your suggestions!!
 
Alrighty! So I got an email back. It's ironic how you send off an email labeled "Questions" only to get answers back that will prompt more questions. What should my reply email be labeled? "More Questions?"

So the room that I found online and loved--the Palm Beach Boardroom is not available for Food and Beverage. This makes me :sad1:. I'm not uber upset because I kind of figured that... I was just wondering.

I expressed my concern about the lack of tasting at the CG and he suggested we eat at the restaurant. We do that every trip and we love it... but when I look at all these menus they are soooooooooo different. I really don't think it's the same. I still want a tasting... maybe because I feel like it's owed to me :rotfl2:

He said the Commander's Terrace is mainly used for Escape and suggested the Summerhouse. What I like about this statement is the word "mainly". I feel like if I dig my heels in I could manage to make it work... but do I want to go thru all of that :confused3 He said we could set up a call next week to work thru some of this. I like that idea.

So I started going thru reception sites for the 58th time in the past 2 weeks and tried to work off of his Summerhouse idea. I saw recent pix of a couple that used a couch and high tables and it was BEAUTIFUL. I started to imagine it with my colors, tried to work out the timing for afternoon so we wouldn't freeze in November. Then I realize my ideas are costing $$. :headache: I wanted a violinist at my reception, but would you hear it out in the open with people walking by, etc? What's the backup plan for weather? Can Mickey and Minnie be there since its outdoors in the resort? It would have to be a buffet do I want that? Are the bugs gonna get me? Is there a smoking area for my stepmom :lmao: :lmao: Just kidding... checking to see if you're still awake :) Will my floral ideas be too formal for the outside? Will black and silver be too bland for the area?? The little wheels in my brain have been all scattered since 11:00am when I got the email. I tried not to think of it over lunch since we were discussing work stuff... but I kept thinking about a cool picture on the couch with Mickey and Minnie. But then what about Fireworks?? I could say a prayer that they're early at 8:00 that night... it's been done before in November :littleangel: and just walk over to Narcoossee's Landing. Is outside just too risky? Will my family or Dave hate this idea? I'm tired of selling ideas to people and not getting commission for my work :laughing:

I threw the idea of switching to the Epcot side of the world for more options, but I just don't wanna :( There are so many pix around the GF, CR and Poly that I want that it would just add more grief and $$ for photography time. I love the WP and if I could just use the dang Commander's Terrace life would be peachy. Now I got the idea of that couch in my head. I showed it to Dave a little while ago and he thought it was sweet. He actually liked it, but if he gets set on it and I can't hold up the financial end--then I'm gonna be up a creek without a paddle. :eek: I looked thru all the ballrooms again and they're sooooo not us. The Napa Room was "us". The Napa Room still is "us".... but I want other menu options. :headache: :headache: :headache: That's what I feel like.

Maybe what I need is a suggestion. What is your vision for us, lol?? Is there something I'm not thinking of?? By the time we change everything around we should have 15-25 people. We're still wanting to stick with Black and Silver and sticking with a modern theming with White Calla Lillies. I won't see Dave until Sunday afternoon because we work/sleep opposites until then, but I'm hoping to corner him and give him some options before I talk to Bill next week. I want him involved, but I feel like I'm going to need to make the decisions if he doesn't speak up.

Okay, I have to deal with some work drama so that's all for now. I would love to hear your suggestions!!


Oh my goodness.. it's SCAREY as to how much alike we are.. except I'm not getting my Disney wedding.. :headache:

But anywayz, if I were you I'd stick with my guns about Commander's Terrace until I hear a voice on the other end of the phone and can fight with them about why it is 'mainly' used which MEANS IT CAN BE USED FOR ME THEN. :scared1: That's just how I roll? haha. Then play around with the ideas of the summerhouse and ideas to cut costs so that I could get my couch in there also ALONG with the most important guests, Mickey and Minnie..
When I have free time over the weekend I will search around and see what I can find for you! I'm taking a hiatus on planning my wedding.. so I will help you out! I love the black/white/lillies theme thought.. it's going to be FABULOUS once it's all said and done. And I PROMISE you it will work out. :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
Were you thinking of Commander's Terrace for a pre-reception or the whole reception? Does it have capacity for that many people with tables? What about the marina for the reception? Or Sago Cay Point? Summerhouse seems kind of out in the open IMO, I like the Whitehall Patio better b/c it is more secluded, but you don't get the water view. Also, according to the Disney Wedding website, the Contemporary Resort marina is available for receptions. I can't picture how it would be set up (and you might be the first one to do it too), but it would definitely be unique.
 
Oh my goodness.. it's SCAREY as to how much alike we are.. except I'm not getting my Disney wedding.. :headache:

But anywayz, if I were you I'd stick with my guns about Commander's Terrace until I hear a voice on the other end of the phone and can fight with them about why it is 'mainly' used which MEANS IT CAN BE USED FOR ME THEN. :scared1: That's just how I roll? haha. Then play around with the ideas of the summerhouse and ideas to cut costs so that I could get my couch in there also ALONG with the most important guests, Mickey and Minnie..
When I have free time over the weekend I will search around and see what I can find for you! I'm taking a hiatus on planning my wedding.. so I will help you out! I love the black/white/lillies theme thought.. it's going to be FABULOUS once it's all said and done. And I PROMISE you it will work out. :hug: :hug: :hug:

If we look at things this weekend and don't come to a new conclusion, I'll have to lay down the law... :laughing:

Were you thinking of Commander's Terrace for a pre-reception or the whole reception? Does it have capacity for that many people with tables? What about the marina for the reception? Or Sago Cay Point? Summerhouse seems kind of out in the open IMO, I like the Whitehall Patio better b/c it is more secluded, but you don't get the water view. Also, according to the Disney Wedding website, the Contemporary Resort marina is available for receptions. I can't picture how it would be set up (and you might be the first one to do it too), but it would definitely be unique.

Yeah, I know this is all backwards, but I wanted to do the cake cutting and a few small appetizers at Commander's Terrace for say... an hour. I wanted Mickey and Minnie to be outside with the water as the backdrop, very private with possibly a violinist--maybe a little dance with the characters. If I had this, I basically could let the photographer go home at the beginning of the reception because all the main events would be over. I really wanted to do a real dessert and I feel like cake and a real dessert is too much. So if we did cake before... problem solved. If I went to Escape I could do this, but I'm budgeting over the Wishes minimum so why should I be punished??

I checked out the CR marina and from angle #1 I was sold on it... from angle #2... it's right in front of the pool :scared1: Very very pretty view of Bay Lake.

Thanks for the suggestions!! More are welcome!! I really want to sort this out so when we go in a few weeks we can check a few locations out. Plus, I need to pounce on the location on July 5th, lol!! Sorry I'm so aggressive today, we've had work issues and I had to whip some vendors attitudes into shape :) I should go home and sleep it off :laughing: Happy Friday everyone!
 
All I can say about the Commander's Terrace thing is GOOD LUCK! That's exactly what I wanted to do and we literally spent two months going round and round trying to get permission and ended up being DENIED over and over. There was nothing we could do or say to get them to agree to let us use it because we weren't an Escape couple. When we pointed out we'd be using the WP so there would be no Escape couple in the WP needing the Terrace, they then told us that it's the rain backup for Memories weddings and we weren't entitled to use it. Even though Memories weddings aren't held on Thursdays, when our VR was. It was asinine. Just one of the many reasons we bailed on the DFTW. Oy.

I seriously wish you better luck than we had -- keep us posted! :goodvibes
 















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