Love is Hard

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:sad: We've decided that we need to put our cat down this morning. He's so young and he's fighting to stay with us, but, he's stopped purring and he only ate a small amount of freshly cooked salmon by being hand fed despite the fact that he wanted it. It's been so much faster than we were prepared for and we figure he'd probably last another couple of weeks if we were prepared to let him be really sick. But, we didn't want to torture him with hospitalization, surgery and tubes when the prognosis was still terminal, so, we also don't want to torture him by letting him be so sick and so weak that he can't get any joy. At this point he's clearly weak and conserving all of the energy that he can. But, at least he's still remembering the love we share. He's been a really special boy and I've never loved a pet the way I love him and the house is going to feel SO lonely. :sad:
 
I am so sorry to hear about this, it's never an easy decision.

:grouphug:
 
I can't imagine how hard this is for you, and how painful.

You and your beloved pet are in my thoughts this morning. :hug:
 
:grouphug:
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....​

Author unknown...
 

:sad: We've decided that we need to put our cat down this morning. He's so young and he's fighting to stay with us, but, he's stopped purring and he only ate a small amount of freshly cooked salmon by being hand fed despite the fact that he wanted it. It's been so much faster than we were prepared for and we figure he'd probably last another couple of weeks if we were prepared to let him be really sick. But, we didn't want to torture him with hospitalization, surgery and tubes when the prognosis was still terminal, so, we also don't want to torture him by letting him be so sick and so weak that he can't get any joy. At this point he's clearly weak and conserving all of the energy that he can. But, at least he's still remembering the love we share. He's been a really special boy and I've never loved a pet the way I love him and the house is going to feel SO lonely. :sad:

Wow - I hate this - don't you wish they'd stay around forever.
I'm so sorry to hear about this. It so difficult. :hug:
 
:sad: We've decided that we need to put our cat down this morning. He's so young and he's fighting to stay with us, but, he's stopped purring and he only ate a small amount of freshly cooked salmon by being hand fed despite the fact that he wanted it. It's been so much faster than we were prepared for and we figure he'd probably last another couple of weeks if we were prepared to let him be really sick. But, we didn't want to torture him with hospitalization, surgery and tubes when the prognosis was still terminal, so, we also don't want to torture him by letting him be so sick and so weak that he can't get any joy. At this point he's clearly weak and conserving all of the energy that he can. But, at least he's still remembering the love we share. He's been a really special boy and I've never loved a pet the way I love him and the house is going to feel SO lonely. :sad:

I am so sorry:hug:
I wish they could stay with us too. I will be thinking of you all:sad1:
 
:sad1: We lost two pets last year, so unfortunately, I know the pain you feel all too well. :hug:
 
I'm so sorry. :hug: I have two cats and I know how bad I feel when one gets injured or sick. When we first moved into our house one went missing for two days and I cried like a baby....
The love we feel for our pets is really something isn't it?:grouphug:
 
When my baby girl Maya died a few years ago, I was wreck, so I know what you're feeling. :grouphug: Your family is in my prayers. I found this website, was very helpful. www.ilovedmypet.com
 
Love that piece, a dear friend sent it to me when my dog died. It still gives me hope and I hope it does as well for the OP. Thanks
 
Thank you all for your support.

It's been a day of many tears (and I suspect there will still be many more before the day is done). We're actually heading to wdw tomorrow, but, I can't quite wrap my head around that yet--the past week has been so focused that we weren't even certain we were going until today. I've also got some work that I absolutely must find the energy to do before we leave. I don't know if we'll be able to appreciate the fantasy that we usually love, but, hopefully we'll be gentle with ourselves and find some healing.
 
HUgs.. I am so sorry.. I know this feeling all too well.. We loved our cat, but she got cancer and the no eating thing I vividly remember..... It was devastating to put her down, but it was the right thing to do.......took us some time to get over it, and I have to admit we have never gotten another pet because of how hard it was for us.

Try and have some smiles in WDW........
 
:grouphug: I'm sorry you are going through this. Our dogs and cats are our babies-my thoughts and prayers are with you!
 
I'm so sorry. Yes, when they stop eating, then you know it's time to let them go. We had to make that decision with our cat Rusty 3 years ago and it was really hard. He was such a good cat. :(
 
I'm so so sorry. I just lost my girl of 15 years. :hug:
 
I'm so sorry. It's hard to lose a pet especially since they always give us unconditional love.
 
Take refuge in knowing that you gave your precious one the very best life that could be given. Knowing when to allow the release of pain and discomfort is the final gift.

Be in peace.
 
I'm so sorry to hear that :sad1:

We just got my first cat ever in July and already I'm so attached to her, but I remember when my dalmatian died when I was 15. He was so stupid and loveable, I think I cried for a week.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your kitty. I just found out my cat has heart disease and probably will only live for another year, maybe two at most. I don't know what i'll do without him but i'm just trying to be happy with the time we have left.

I'm sure your kitty knows how much you love him. I'll pray for him and you :hug:
 
I'm so sorry. I know this is a terribly hard time for you. But try to remember all the things about him that made you smile and keep those memories close to your heart. {{hugs}}
 












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