I'm nervous about anything with a moving platform... kali river rapids, buzz lightyear, nemo.... all those scare me because we've always carried him onto those rides.
Thanks in advance!
Buzz Lighyear has a special entrance for special needs. Ask a CM and they will help there. You need to stay right when you enter the queue with a wheelchair. At the special entrance they stop the ride and load the wheelchair with you on board. If he's in a wheelchair you are pretty safe especially if you have a seat belt with it. I believe most wheelchairs can be retrofitted with a seat belt. I love this ride; because, we often get to do it two or three times in a row. They are nice about it. It's not a guarantee to do multiple rides, but we have had good luck that way. I think your son will love this ride. Getting him to learn to aim at targets is probably a good skill to get him introduce to it. You may have to show him with the gun, but he'll catch on eventually. If the other child meets the height requirements you call all use the special entrances to the ride. Even if the other child is not going to hit targets, it's fun to ride. You can be together in case you need help, too.
Nemo is very much the same way with getting on the ride. The special entrance for this ride is harder to find and there's not an attendant there all the time to show you. I would ask before you enter the queue. They will load the wheeelchair with you on board.
If you refer to the disabilties guide you will see the rides that take the whole wheelchair on the rides. I was shocked that Jungle Cruise had special boats.
The only downside is that you may have to wait a little longer for the rides; because, the special wheelchair car has to come around for you to use it.
Also, I would try to find a way for both parents to do rides at the same time. Get a meeting point (like a quick service restaurant) for longer rides and your husband can go with the other child on some tamer rides with the younger one. You will accomplish a lot more that way. Also, it's an excellent time for hubby to bond with the other child. This will make it more fun for everyone.
I agree with the other poster to get a GAC. You may or may not use it, but it could help.