We are probably the opposite of most cruisers on this forum, in that our usual line is NCL, with the occasional
DCL cruise thrown in

I spent our DCL cruise lamenting about how we couldn't eat when we wanted, where we wanted, and felt guilty for being 10 minutes late for dinner because we were having fun in port

. My boys hated the kids club (they never went back after the open house) and there were way too many kids on the ship for our liking. Freestyle works much better for us, and I appreciate being able to pay for services that I use, rather than the all-inclusive approach of DCL. Don't get me wrong, we did enjoy our DCL cruise. DH loved the free pop, the boys loved meeting characters and the multiple child-friendly activities, and the ship was beautiful. However, the "excellent service" speeches got old quickly and I could do without the gratuitous small talk at dinner (we did mention it to our servers, but felt like we were antisocial when we just wanted to enjoy each others company...)
I view DCL as a 5+ star experience whereas NCL is a solid 4 star. If we want to vacation every year, then it's the 4 star experience as that's what we can afford. I just booked a haven penthouse suite on Breakaway, and expect this is going to bridge the divide between the regular NCL experience and the DCL experience. I'll let you know in March

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(DS2 loves the dancing banana, so he insisted it be added!

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