WDSearcher
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 20, 2002
I'd forgotten about it until now. But I have a new twist for you guys. When I was there in May, I walked into the restroom in the UK (across from the Rose & Crown). Most of you probably know the one I'm talking about. I walked in with another lady and just behind us a man walked in with his wife and daughter. Both I and the lady that walked in with me, were in shock. Before I could say anything, the other lady demanded to know what he was doing in the ladies room and he said he was accompanying his wife and daughter because they didn't speak English. Excuse me, I don't think so . At the same time, several ladies in there started yelling for him to get out. He was determined to stay. His wife spoke rather frantically to him, but he just shook his head and motioned for the wife and daughter to go into a stall, while he stood there. A woman finally stalked out and called for security, who escorted him out, with him complaining the whole time that there was nothing wrong with him being in there, because his wife and daughter didn't speak English and he had a right to keep them safe. Excuse me but why would a grown woman with her child need a man to keep her safe in the ladies room (whether she spoke Enlish or not). This happened the first week of May this year.
I think that some countries have the opinion that the kind of "free and open" places like the US are somehow more dangerous than the more staid countries of Europe or other regions. I'm thinking what was probably on the husband's mind was that some unscrupulous person would try to steal from or harm his wife or daughter in some way and, since they did not speak the language, they would be more prone to be taken advantage of. I can see his point, if he's been in a similar situation before.
The thing that really makes me wonder is why all the other women got so freaked out by it? It's not like the guy was hitting on the women or trying to get into the stalls or doing anything threatening. He made it very clear that he was there to watch over his wife and daughter to keep them safe. Unless all of these women were planning on stripping down by the sinks and taking a "sink bath" or something, who cares? Women are always saying how, when it's really crowded at concerts or whatever, they'll just go in the men's room, because there's not a line. But have a guy walk into the ladies' room and it's pandemonium. Women go to the bathroom behind closed doors. Again ... what are they afraid the guy is going to see or do?
European countries have had co-ed bathrooms for years. Shouldn't be that big of a deal, YWIM?