Lindsay's Make A Wish becomes an answer to her prayer!

wbh1964

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Hi everyone~
Let me introduce you to our family...
First is my dh (Frank), myself (Wendy), our ds (Dalton who is 20) and our wonderful dd (Lindsay who is 15 and our Make a Wish child). Lindsay has a connective tissue disorder (originally diagnosed as Vascular Type 4 Ehlers Danlos) yet she has many more symptoms and issues than most Ehlers patients experience. In the past 3 years her declining health has led to her using a wheelchair for most outings that require walking like shopping and she uses a walking cane around the house. She is in constant pain and is on high doses of pain meds daily. There is no cure and all we can do is treat the symptoms. I homeschool as her stamina level does not allow her to participate in public school. It is now starting to affect her speech and her process thinking. This has been a VERY difficult journey for a 15 year old to travel as you can imagine. Especially when I tell you that just 3 years ago she lived a very normal life and was even cheerleading for a Christian organization here in town. It has been a very difficult and eye opening 3 years!
Now, having told you a little of her medical situation, let me describe our lives right now...my dh was laid off 2 years ago after 30+ years of service in the same industry...the economy here is HORRIBLE and it took him 2 years of constanct searching to finally find a job which he started 3 weeks ago. We have been very blessed thru the years and have always been huge Disney fans. We stated taking our kids to Disney when Lindsay was 2 and have gone every other year since that time until the past few years. Our last trip was in 2008 when we celebrated our son's high school graduation and had an amazing trip of a lifetime. With each trip, Lindsay has ALWAYS wanted to do a behind the scenes tour but found that you have to be 16 to do these tours. For YEARS we have promised her that we would celebrate at Disney for her 16th birthday and take her on the tour...that was until the layoff and our finances were no more! We are barely getting by even with the new job because of the huge paycut he had to take plus we have lots of medical bills becuase we exhausted our cobra medical insurance and were unable to obtain private medical insurance. So now you are up to speed...
A very good friend of mine felt that Lindsay needed something special in her life as so much has been taken from her with this illness. She researched MAW foundation but was unable to refer Linds as you have to be a parent or medical provide. She asked me to refer her and to be honest, I wasn't sure if Lindsay would qualify and I HATED to get her excited about something that might never happen. Well, it IS happening. We recieved the letter late April that Lindsay would be granted a wish and we meet with the wish coordinator tomorrow night! OF course Lindsay is wishing for a Disney trip. The only week my husband can go will be the week his plant shuts down for the Christmas holidays so we are keeping our fingers crossed that MAW can work in that time schedule. Lindsay says this is God's way of answering her prayer...she has prayed for a way to go to Disney this year to celebrate. It is a huge year for us as My dh and I will be married 25 years this June, Linds turns 16 in August, our ds turns 21 in Sept and my dh turns 50 in Nov. I think this is an answer to prayer for all of us and I LOVE seeing Lindsay get excited about something for a change. I will keep everyone posted and we meet with her wish granter tomorrow and the plans start to come together. Thanks so much for taking the time to read about our family! We love the disboards!!!

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What an awesome story to share with us!

The thread caught my eye b/c my daughter is a "wish child" as well (she is battling leukemia) and we are currently waiting to find out if her wish will be approved. She wants to go to Hawaii and get a surfing lesson from Bethany Hamilton.

Anyway, we are stuck here in the hospital tonight and my daughter is resting. I always look to the DIS to take me away from all this medical crap that our lives are filled with.... leukemia treatment only lasts a few years, and I can't imagine what it would be like to face a lifetime of medical crisis with a child. It is heartbreaking that kids must endure such challenges.

I hope that MAW is able to grant your daughter's wish and give you the week that your husband can get off work. I can't wait to read about the tour she will hopefully be taking! :wizard:

Sending lots of love and pixie dust from the ER here at Cohen's Children's Hospital in NY.....
 
Prayers that all our your wishes come to fruition. It is stories like these that really hit home how lucky I am and how quickly circumstances can change. I hope to read your PTR and TRs soon!
 
Thanks everyone!
We met with Lindsay's Wish granters tonight and they seemed very positive. Lindsay explained that she wished for a Disney trip but would rather stay on Disney property instead of GKTW...they didn't seem to see a problem with that and said we should expect to hear back from them in 3-4 weeks...so... now we have to wait. Will post updates as soon as we hear back from them!

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This is Lindsay reading off her "wish" notes to the wish granters! If you look close you can see her MAW journal that we made for her to make notes in...
 

Well, it's been a long time since I created this and our wish trip experience began. We have been told that Lindsay's wish has been approved and she will get to stay at Grand Floridian (her heart's desire :) but we don't have any additional details yet so we are "hoping" that more info will come along because we are planning to set out on this adventure in less than 5 weeks!!!! Can you tell that we are just a "little" excited!!! Linds has been looking forward to this for so many months and now is in so much more pain. From falling and passing out, she has inflamed bursitis in her hip and that is just making her pain worse but she keeps smiling :) My hubby has been working for his wonderful new company for almost 7 months now and we feel so BLESSED!!! Our son is a senior at a NC State University and is looking as forward to joining us on Lindsay's wish trip as we are. He is a wonderful big brother and loves his sister with all his heart...and is VERY protective of her! Linds celebrated her 16th birthday in August...we threw her a BIG surprise party and announce to her that her Make A Wish trip would be coming true...It was a wonderful day for her. Now we are just waiting to hear from MAKE A WISH for details and we will be ready to roll!!! Thanks everyone for caring...We love our dis board friends!
 
I just read your story and I am in tears. Happy tears that Lindsay is getting her wish! We are going to be at the world for Owen's MAW trip on Dec 4-14th. Our prayers are with your family!!
 
Thought I would share some photos of Linds' 16th surprise birthday party. We had about 125 people (mostly our church family) and we announced that her MAW trip had been approved. Of course we decorated in her fav colors (pink and green) and her fav everything...Disney!

This is our Family Life Center all decorated for Lindsay~
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The Birthday Girl
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Me and my beautiful Lindsay...my best friend!
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Our Family (Me, Lindsay, my hubby who is also Linds' wonderful dad and our son who is the MOST AWESOME brother per Linds)
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HI!!! I'm joining in!! I'll have to come back a little later and catch up but I can't wait to read your PTR!! I'm so excited for you guys!!!
 
Wendy sent me over to say "hi" ~ I'm so excited for Lindsay, particularly that you are getting the wish to stay at the Grand Floridian! I love the birthday photos too! I also heard you were driving down -- what state are you from? I hope it will be an easy drive for you all.
 
O.k. I caught up!! I'm excited that she gets to stay at GF. :lovestruc What a gorgeous resort!!! I do hope that she gets to do her tour! :wizard:

Thanks for sharing your PTR with us!
 
thanks guys for so much caring and happy thoughts!
We live in North Carolina and it is about 12 hours from door to door. We stop alot to allow Linds to move a little so the ride is actually easier than if we tried to fly...plus we have never flown with all this medical transport equipment...we have always loved the drive and enjoy spending time together in the car. Since our son has been away at college...we love car time together because it is good quality time!...and we have so much fun together!
Just a quick thought that hit my mind when I was typing about the medical transport equipment...Lindsay used her first wheelchair ever during our last Disney trip in 2008. The docs told us they didn't think she would make it thru the week without needing one but she was stubborn and we had no idea how accurate they were. It was right after that trip that Linds' health REALLY took a turn...and her days are so different now. We are looking so forward to taking her back to Disney with a trip that will keep a smile on her face :) Thanks for following our adventure!
 
Time is getting closer for Owen's trip!!! I know you guys are so excited!! I wish you lots of wonderful memories and safe travels....

I just read your story and I am in tears. Happy tears that Lindsay is getting her wish! We are going to be at the world for Owen's MAW trip on Dec 4-14th. Our prayers are with your family!!
 
WE love the Grand Floridian. It is one of our favorite resorts.

We will actually be at Disney at the same time but are staying at Bay Lake tower
 
Looking forward to following your PTR. So happy for Lindsay that she will get to stay in her dream resort!
 
Happy Birthday to Lindsay!

Following along-- so happy she is getting her Wish! pixiedust:

Many prayers and hugs to you and your family, Wendy!
 
thanks guys for so much caring and happy thoughts!
We live in North Carolina and it is about 12 hours from door to door. We stop alot to allow Linds to move a little so the ride is actually easier than if we tried to fly...plus we have never flown with all this medical transport equipment...we have always loved the drive and enjoy spending time together in the car. Since our son has been away at college...we love car time together because it is good quality time!...and we have so much fun together!
Just a quick thought that hit my mind when I was typing about the medical transport equipment...Lindsay used her first wheelchair ever during our last Disney trip in 2008. The docs told us they didn't think she would make it thru the week without needing one but she was stubborn and we had no idea how accurate they were. It was right after that trip that Linds' health REALLY took a turn...and her days are so different now. We are looking so forward to taking her back to Disney with a trip that will keep a smile on her face :) Thanks for following our adventure!

We're neighbors -- just one state north of you! It's not too bad of a drive. We stayed at a hotel in southern GA on the way down, but on the way home we drove straight. I just wanted all of us to be rested and enjoy our time at Disney rather than be too exhausted from driving.

Lindsay will likely be much happier with a road trip than flying -- she'll have more space in the car, and like you said, you all can stop at will. And nothing beats having your own car at Dis!

What parks are you visiting?
 
ok...here are "our" plans. We don't have specifics from MAW yet so this may change once they give us details... I will forewarn ya'll that I border on anal when it comes to planning our prior disney trips...lol!!!

Fri 12/23 We leave that evening as soon as hubby gets home from work which could be anywhere from 6:30 until 11:30 with it being the day b4 his plant holiday shut down...we are hoping to drive 3-4 hours but won't know til then.

Sat 12/24 Arrive at Disney (hopefully we will have ressies at Grand Floridian). From what I have read we will probably go to GKTW for orientation, hopefully have time to hit the disney outlet at the outlet mall and then we have Christmas Eve dinner ressies at 7:30 for CHef Mickeys...what a great way I think to begin Lindsay's Christmas wish trip!

Sun 12/25 We will be spending Christmas Day at MK :santa: I think their hours are 8am-11pm. We have 1pm lunch ressies at Crystal Palace and hope to eat dinner at Columbia Harbor House. This will be a good day in case Linds needs to go back and rest, she and I will just hop on the monorail!...and leave our guys to enjoy the park while she rest.

Mon 12/26 We start at HS (hrs are 9am-10pm) We will head to Wilderness Lodge Whispering Canyon for dinner at 7:30 then hop the monorail because MK will be open until 2am

Tues 12/27 We go to EPCOT (9am-midnt) and have dinner at Rose and Crown at 7:30. If need be again, hit monorail and go back to GF for rest time.

Wed 12/28 It's Animal Kingdom starting at 8am. We then head to HS for a 3pm ressie at 50's Prime Time and this park doesn't close until 1am. We will play until Linds is tired and then head back to GF.

Now...here is some uncertainty. Linds also asked to go to Universal and Harry Potter World so we are planning to spend Thurs and Fri there but not sure where we will be staying....

Sat...We head home...probably with tears in our eyes and Mickey in our hearts!

I "think" MAW is trying to work with Disney to plan a behind the scenes tour for Linds at MK but I have no idea if or when that will happen so this all my be tossed like a salad b4 we leave....only time will tell :confused3

Thanks again everybody for following along with us and helping to make this so special for my amazing child!!! It is nice to know there are so many people out there wishing her well and sending up prayers!
 
Looking forward to sharing you MAW trip planning - hope everything goes to plan with lots of Disney magic thrown in to make it extra extra special :wizard:
 
Joining in and praying that MAW will be able to get Lindsay that behind the scenes tour!
 












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