Tigger&Belle
<font color=blue>I'm the good girl on the DIS<br><
- Joined
- Sep 2, 2000
- Messages
- 37,734
I was raised by a mother who said she was Baptist and sent us to Sunday School/church, but who didn't go because my dad didn't go. He was agnostic/atheist (didn't really talk about it) because he was forced to go as a child and didn't see a value or reason for going. I think that a lot of crap went on when he was a child--and it showed in my dad's feelings about religion. But this is speculation since it really wasn't talked about.
I went to Sunday School at the Baptist Church until I was old enough to declare that I didn't want to go and since my mom didn't go there wasn't much she could do about it. I enjoyed visiting various churches growing up.
I got engaged to a Jewish guy and decided that it was important that my children be raised in a religion, something that I missed growing up. I converted before I was married and agreed to raise my children as Jews.
That alone wasn't hard, but giving up the cultural parts of my upbringing proved very difficult and made Decembers very difficult. We eventually reached a compromise and decided that we could embrace Judaism religiously without ignoring everything that I grew up with. So, we sometimes have a Christmas tree, always have stockings, and recognize Christmas in a cultural sense, but our kids got to Hebrew and religious school and have Bar/Bat Mitzvahs. They consider themselves Jewish. It's never good enough for my MIL (that's a whole other thread), but she's learned to keep quiet and to not visit in December.
I went to Sunday School at the Baptist Church until I was old enough to declare that I didn't want to go and since my mom didn't go there wasn't much she could do about it. I enjoyed visiting various churches growing up.
I got engaged to a Jewish guy and decided that it was important that my children be raised in a religion, something that I missed growing up. I converted before I was married and agreed to raise my children as Jews.
That alone wasn't hard, but giving up the cultural parts of my upbringing proved very difficult and made Decembers very difficult. We eventually reached a compromise and decided that we could embrace Judaism religiously without ignoring everything that I grew up with. So, we sometimes have a Christmas tree, always have stockings, and recognize Christmas in a cultural sense, but our kids got to Hebrew and religious school and have Bar/Bat Mitzvahs. They consider themselves Jewish. It's never good enough for my MIL (that's a whole other thread), but she's learned to keep quiet and to not visit in December.