To put it simply, I'm a loser. I've got one friend I hang out with and we never hang out (or spend 6 weeks in between). I've had my issues dealing with this including a pretty bad habit I've had to break.
Anywho, my mom's walking/health has been getting worse and worse over the years, to the point where she isn't comfortable being home alone by herself. This Saturday, my dad and brother are going to a football game, so I have to stay at home.
I forgot this, and my friend asked me over to her house on Saturday [the first time she's asked me to do something at her house all year] and so I ask my mom. My mom starts saying sorry, and keeps apologizing because she feels bad.
I truly and honestly don't care, so I told her it was fine (it is) and we can reschedule (we can). But it's too late and my mom storms off into her bedroom.
It's not a big deal but now she's gone and pulled the guilt trip (which I didn't, for once) and I feel terrible..
Kindof like when she was making me lunch last week she asked what sandwich I wanted and I said "Whatever's easiest for you"
and she SNAPS back "NOTHING is easy for me Megan!!!"
So I say, "That's fine then mom, sit down and I'll make my sandwich"
Her: "NO! Just get me the stuff out of the fridge!"
"Mom I got it, no big deal"
"IT'S FINE"