She probably isn't going to be happy unless the reception venue is in a hall with a DJ and since she isn't offering to pay for anything I don't think her opinion should really matter, but it does. I think she just has a problem grasping that a destination wedding is a small affair. I don't care if I share a restaurant of people. Keith just tells me "whatever you want, princess." I really want Ohana because I love the atmosphere and the view. Plus we could walk to the beach and watch Wishes and maybe even get a few awesome photos from family members. Plus, there will be three kids (6, 2, and 2) and I want something fun for them to enjoy too.