The Mystery Machine
Sunrise at my house. :+)
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FWIW, where I live it is UNTHINKABLE for anybody to wear their regular shoes inside a house. It simply isn't done and would be considered horrible manners to not take them off at the door so that doesn't sound weird to me at all. Also, when I read your original post I thought it was hyperbole in a joking tone - not something that's become a real issue for you. Sorry if I sounded flippant.![]()
I recently moved to a city, and while I've never been one for no-shoes-in-the-house, the dog crap and filth we walk past every day has made me become that way. No shoes past the front hallway.
However, I think OP has a problem, and it isn't a dirty comforter. Get some therapy for that.
I have to wear my reg. shoes in the house. So does my sister, mother, and father.
I have Morton's neuroma and I wear orthotics, my sister has had ankle reconstruction and needs her shoes to be stable on her feet, my mother has neuropathy of the feet and my father has serious balance issues.
Hopefully as the people around you have issues regarding their feet and aging you won't force shoes off of their feet.

Back to OP....
OP, you are dealing with a phobia, which is essentially a form of OCD with some serious rumination.
Here is the bottom line with that. The more you "give in" to the phobia, the more it increases your OCD, which in turn begins to creep into other stuff and so on. Basically you are building a "wall".
If it is seriously disrupting your life you can seek therapy and get yourself some help.
