This is a great post! I love reading how others travel with a big group!
My family and I will be at WDW to celebrate Thanksgiving and stay for the week following as well. It is 10 of us! We are staying at a Grand Villa at Saratoga Springs. Our ages range from 3 months to 62 years old! We are all so excited to be spending time together.
This is the second time we have all traveled together to WDW and last time we ate every meal together and pretty much stayed together for the whole trip!
How we plan: Before we travel, we get together alot and talk about what places to eat, specific tours, parks and new attractions. We've already purchased our MVMCPtickets and are working on our ADR's for the trip. With that said, we are not "touring" folks. We typically pick a park and work our way around doing what everyone wants to do and we don't rush! We find it very relaxing to have sit-down meals and make that a priority in addition to touring the parks, resorts and spending ample time at the Pool. Since we'll be in WDW for 10 days - we have the luxury of time to explore the resort and do alot of park hopping.
You just need to bring your patience and remember that this is Disney World and you are on vacation!
Our groups sound very similar! When we went in Jan of 2006, it was 12 of us. This trip my brother and his family will be there, so it jumps to 16! Add in my brother's wife's parents (following this?) who might come down from Boston for a few days, and on some days we will have 18! The 12 of us from our first trip pretty much stayed together with the exception of my Dad, Hubby, and brother-in-law. They occasionally ran off to do some of the bigger thrill rides, but we weren't apart for very long even then. I have a feeling this trip will be a little different with the addition of my brother and his family. They tend to do their own thing anyway, so I'm sure a Disney trip will be no different.
I plan on just having a few strategic ADRs in place for the week (Character meals, Thanksgiving dinner, etc) and possibly a few special events (BBB, Dive Quest, Wishes cruise) and even those are still somewhat up in the air. We are not crazy about getting in there and seeing everything we can see - we like to take our time - but we like to have a plan at the beginning of the day! Of course, you know what they say, "a plan is only a point from which to deviate!"
You say that you will be there for Thanksgiving - have you decided where you are going to eat yet? We are thinking Liberty Tree Tavern, but wonder if it's going to be too crowded. We are also looking at Chef Mickey's and staying away from the parks that day. Any thoughts?
Have a great time! It's nice to hear some positive things about groups traveling together. Sometimes all you hear are the negative. My mom, sister, my kids, and her kids, all have so much fun together - it's hard to picture splitting up at all. The rest of the group will do what they want to do anyway, so I'm just including them in our # for ADRs and asking them to join us. They will probably start the day with us and then break apart somtime mid-day. Just a hunch, but that's what I think will happen.

tickets and are working on our ADR's for the trip. With that said, we are not "touring" folks. We typically pick a park and work our way around doing what everyone wants to do and we don't rush! We find it very relaxing to have sit-down meals and make that a priority in addition to touring the parks, resorts and spending ample time at the Pool. Since we'll be in WDW for 10 days - we have the luxury of time to explore the resort and do alot of park hopping.
Maybe he thinks we know dw better than him and i will be like his tour guide, or maybe he would be too overwelmed with them. I have been with these kids and they are very well behaved so i don't really think
Anywho...our thoughts on getting together once a month and have dinner was just to get a good idea of what everyone else had in mind or expected...and to get the kids all together to get to know one another even better. That of course backfired somewhat as well...because a few of them have now started dating
(we have a good sized group of teens going along). 