I go for larger cards as well. It's less to keep track of and I haven't had any quality cards fail on me. 16gig cards seem huge compared to the 1gig cards I used to shoot, but then again, the 21meg RAW's that my D7000 is outputting compared to the ~5meg RAW's that my D100 made are also huge. I will likely step up to 32gig cards, but probably not 64gig or larger. I simply have no need for that size as I clear my cards basically daily. I won't get into 64's or the like until I get into a 20+mp body (also, which I have really no desire for, 16 is plenty).
Regarding the zero failure Hoodman cards; while Hoodman makes a good quality (and IMO, very overpriced), as Danielle mentioned, the type of person buying those are likely to take a bit more care of them. Also, while I have no hard data to support this, I'm quite sure there are MANY more Lexar and SanDisk cards out there than Hoodman cards. Sandisk and Lexar have both been around ages longer than Hoodman and quite simply, less cards to get damaged, less chances of a failure. For what it's worth, their claim may not be so true. There is at least one review on B&H that said their card failed and another failure mentioned on the dvinfo boards. I'm not knocking Hoodman, as I said above they make fine quality gear, made in the USA too, but their claim is a hard pill to swallow. "We've only been around for 4 years and annually only product 1\1000 of what SanDisk or Lexar, that have been around for well over a decade, produces in a year, but we're going to claim zero failures to get that "seed planted" in our customers heads". Also as I said above, I've had zero failures with my Lexar cards, many of which are nearly a decade old.
My 2c.