I'm 58 and missed two non-consecutive periods in the last year, so I was just starting perimenopause. Then I got breast cancer, and my oncologist didn't want to give me tamoxifen because I had some endometrial hyperplasia. So I had a full hysterectomy and oophorectomy on Monday. I won't miss my periods, but I'm still kind of sad about it all. I know tamoxifen can cause memory loss (which I have enough of already!

) so I'll have to look at the others. Now I can take any of the estrogen blockers, I guess. I'm scheduled for a bone density test in a couple months. I really with I could get HRT