kids missing school

laurcolmeg

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My 9th, 7th and 4th grader will be missing 6 days of school when we go to Disney in January. I have heard that b/c Disney is education they can get credit toward missed days...does anyone know wnything about this? Is there forms or papers to complete?
Thanks for all your help! Just reading thru all the posts gives me tons of info!
 
You will need to check with the schools that they attend to see about getting the days excused. It will depend on the policy of each school as to if the days are excused and the rules on making up the days.

It looks as though you will be dealing with three differnt schools. We toook DS out most years through 5 grade and never had a problem. Our school allows children to make up work even for unexcused days absent so we never took the time to make them excused. For our school it was just filling our some paper work and getting it sighned. I am sure that high school and maybe middle schools might be more involved. We have retracted our plan not to take DS out in middle school so I have looked into our middle school policy and it look pretty easy to adress also.


Good luck!!!!

Jordans' mom
 
but in my area, there's no way they'd get any credit for the trip, and most schools here it would also be considered unexcused. That only makes a difference if you go over the number of days allowed for the year...........could mean summer school here, which might not bother you, but sure would bother me!

In my school, we'd send some work with them and have them make up more when they got back. HOwever, this question has been on here before, and apparently, some schools will not send work ahead and the kids can only catch up later, which may be a big work load after vacation. Again, may not bother your kids.

If they don't have a lot of make-up work either to take or do after, and the school didn't accept the trip as "substitute work", then I'd be scheduling conferences to see exactly what was missed when they were out................and whether or not their grade will be affected, and if not, why? That would be a red flag to me to take a hard look at their schools!

Also, do mention it to their individual teachers, by note, phone message, etc. This helps the teacher prepare for your child's absence..............if nothing else, they will know where your child is..........I am teaching a little boy this year, who three times now has just been gone for an entire week........no word from mom. I get very worried when that happens, as I don't know what's happened. Once, there was a death in the family, once they vacationed to New York, and once she says he had pink eye (if she had called, we could have assured her he didn't have to stay out a week with that). How did I get off on that?

Also, wanted to say, that if your state does state-mandated tests (in our state, all of your children would take them), the teachers can let you know if you'll be missing those and when the make-up dates would be so you can decide if it would be worth it.

Good luck!
 
This is a hot topic on the DIS. You could spend hours reading old threads on this. As far as rules, each school district is different, and even different teachers may be easier or harder to work with. While Disney CAN be educational, like EPCOT and AK, I don't feel that kids who go again and again like mine are really learning much anymore. We took our kids out in elementary school, but by junior high it just got too complicated with multiple teachers and such. We are in a great school district, but the work load is fierce and it is VERY COMPETITIVE! I would speak to the teachers soon if you haven't already. My oldest will be in high school next year and is planning to take AP and honors courses. She has been in gifted all along. No way will she be missing in high school for vacation. Good luck, and have a great trip :)
 

I used to think nothing about taking my kids out of school but once my kids hit Middle School (6th or 7th) grade it became impossible. My oldest was in 6th grade at the elementry school and was always a great student (high marks, in the GATE program etc) but she had a difficult time after missing 2 weeks for our WDW trip. She had all her school work and two week of winter break to do the work but it was still hard. There is no way I would do it now with my kids in 8th and 6ht (at the middle school).

Anyway, for my kids to get credit they had to enroll in "independent study" for the days they missed. All work that was assigned was due THE DAY they got back to school. You should contact the principle of the school(s) and find out what the policy of the school (district).
 
well i taught for some years and the week before x-mas my class did very little work in elem. school i try to not miss days of school but it just depends on how it works out financially.
 
My original plan was to only have DS (3rd grade) out of school for one day. Our flights didn't pan out the way I hoped so he will miss two days. Our handbook is very clear that vacations are UNexcused absences. However, a child may have 10 unexcused absences before anything happens so I am not too concerned. Last year was our first year in public school and he missed 17 days because he was constantly sick. We had every illness documented by his pediatrician but the school never batted an eye.

I do think it gets harder as kids get into the higher grades, and I think the more days they miss the tougher it is to catch up. Talk to the teachers and see what they say. If this is a once in a lifetime trip for you then it is probably worth it!
 
We have taken our sons out of school several times but once our oldest, DS15, hit 9th grade he decided on his own that he did not want to miss more than 1 day so he has opted out of our upcoming trip, Dec 2-5. DS9 is missing 2 days of school and I have already cleared it w/ his teacher. He missed a week in 2003 and we got classwork and homework from his teacher and he worked a little each day and did not have to have the work turned in for an extra week after we got back. (My kids go to private school, I am not sure of policy in public school in our area)
 
As said above it really all depends on the laws where you live. I believe in GA now it would mean no make up work given at all (although some teacher might let that rule slide and give work)and social services would be called ( can't remember if the cut off is 5 or 7 unexcused days). In other areas (California I believe) you can fill out a form and the kids are excused and get credit.
 
Here is a link to a site that has letters you can fill in to teachers.
http://www.themouseforless.com/SchoolExcuse/SE1.shtml

Someone posted them here before and I saved the site just in case.

I haven't use them yet. I brought then 12 year old Niece with us last year and she missed 4 days of school. I wasn't going to bring her again this year because of missing school (8th grade), but after talking to a friend of mine who happens to be a sub teacher at her school, I decided to. My friend said that my niece was such a good student and most of her teachers were very laid back, she would have no problem making up the work. Also she felt that spending a week with her aunt and family would be better for school since this niece lost her mother to breast cancer 6 years ago. So WDW here we come (and she is exremly helpful with the little kids too!) If she wasn't such a wonderful student I wouldn't consider it.

(FYI I do plan on taking my own kids out of school when they are old enough if they also are good students. We have to take breaks when we can since hubby teaches college.)
 
If you do take your kids out of school, photocopy any textbook pages they might need to complete work so you are not draging the textbooks with you. I am not a big fan of pulling kids out of school for vacations, but sometimes it is the only way it will work. We had an opportunity to take the kids on a work trip last year and since we didn't have any control over the dates, the kids missed 5 days of school. I contacted their teachers before Christmas (we went mid Jan), let them know the days they would be gone and asked for homework a head of time. I offered to come into school and help get things ready to take (the kids are in a priviate school and I do a lot of volunteer work and substitute teaching there). The kids were able to get most of their work done during the Christmas break.

Our district is more lenient with family vacations, I think, because we don't have a scheduled "spring Break" other then Good Friday off.
 
In 2000, 2002, 2004 and upcoming 2005 of January my sister and I have missed two weeks in January each time we go to Disney, At the moment I'm in grade 8 and she is in garde 6. When we go, our teachers happily give us h/w and I've even ha dmy french teacher tell me "I deserve a break' and refuse to give me work! My sister and I are both do well in school (she's gifted, I'm not) and our teachers have no problem w/us missing two weeks providing we do the assinged work and keep a jorunal. If your kids are hard workers and good students, the teachers should be OK w/it, except for your 9th garder who may ahve trouble talkign to/getting working in advance from her teachers.
 
I know here it would most definitely be counted as an unexcused absence.

Good luck! I hope it works out for you :)
 
Best bets:

1. Be sure to let the teachers know as soon as you have the dates arranged. Be VERY nice and accommodating. Be sure to give the teacher the dates your child will be absent.

2. Ask for work only covering the objectives that will be missed. Let the teacher know that you will be very busy, so busy work will not be necessary.

3. Let the teacher know that you will do anything to make her job easier regarding make-up work. If necessary, all she has to do is provide you with the objectives of the lessons that will be missed and you will make sure that your child will learn them. Usually this is enough to get hesitant teachers to provide you with materials, but it ensures that your child won't miss any important skills/concepts.

4. Offer to meet the teacher after school one day to collect and prepare materials.

5. Pick up the work from the school and when it is completed, make sure that you go over it with your child and that it is returned to school promptly. (I can't tell you how many times I prepared work for kids that was never picked up or returned!)

6. Call the district offices or check their web site to determine the specific policies regarding family vacations.

7. By doing the things above, you will find that most teachers will accept the assignments and more importantly, your child will remain on track, even if your district has a policy of vacations being considered unexcused absences.
 


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