DVCLiz said:
Why do we as a society seem to rely on our entertainment and media outlets to provide this kind of information in the first place? Why, with all we know about breast cancer and early detection, aren't "we" doing something proactive to educate women and assure they all have access to screening and treatment as early as possible??? Sad to think that we can have almost live streaming video of Britney Spears' birth experience at the touch of a button, but it takes such effort to get a woman to have a mammogram she should have had years ago.
I wasn't going to respond to this but I was given something today that really compelled me to respond now. A co-worker brought in a book that she had found this weekend called "Why We Walk". It's about all the people that ARE doing something proactive to help with the education and access for all to testing. I ask you to go a bookstore sometime before the end of this month - given that it's Breast Cancer Awareness month - and find the book - Why We Walk: The Inspirational Journey Toward A Cure for Breast Cancer" edited by Deb Murphy with photography by Paula Lerner. This is a book that focuses on people who participate in walk around the country and why they do it. You will find numbers of people that have walked, amounts of money that has been raised, and information about people who were diagnosed many many many years ago and get a little understanding of how far those people and money have gotten toward helping find a cure and helping those that can't afford testing. Here are the words to the CD that was included in the book...
WHY WE WALK
Music and Lyrics by Phil and Julie Vassar
There's an empty seat at the dinner table
Where a mother use to sit.
She was 34 years old, full of life and dreams
And two small kids.
There's a young man with a tear in his eye and a pink ribbon on his coat
In memory of the only love he'd ever known.
There's a lady looking in the mirror without a single strand of hair.
She barely recognizes the woman standing there.
She's waging a silent war against an enemy inside
And putting up the fight of her life.
That's why we walk.
We walk to remember.
We walk to celebrate.
That's why we walk.
Leaning on each other
And holding on to faith.
For those who are gone and those who live on.
We honor them all
And that's why we walk.
She lays in a cold white room in a baby-blue paper gown,
Anticipating what the x-rays might have found.
There she hears the words that alwasy stop you on a dime
And prays that they found it in time.
That's why we walk.
We walk to remember.
We walk to celebrate.
That's why we walk.
Leaning on each other
And holding on to faith.
For those who are gone and those who live on.
We honor them all
And that's why we walk.
For life, for love, for one another,
For him, for her, there's strength in numbers.
I have not walked because physically I couldn't but I crewed an Avon walk 2 years ago. It was truly inspirational and healing for me because I had lost my mom to breast cancer the August prior to that, very unexpectedly because of the type she had and the timing it wasn't detectable on scans yet - her tumors were too small yet to be seen on any scans. I learned a lot that year about breast cancer - more than I ever imagined my 27 year old self learning. I know people on this board that lost parents much younger than my mom and than me losing her - my mom was 49 when first diagnosed and 55 at death. She worked 3 jobs just make ends meet and to pay for medicine and treatments (the part that the insurance company wouldn't). During the second round I found out that a month of chemo and tests and meds cost over $18,000. If Katie Couric can help donors come to light to help waive those costs for someone who can't find the means to pay for them - then I'm all for it! If it can bring about someone getting a test they have been scared to get - then go for it!!!!
You see, this wasn't just my moms cancer, this became my cancer and my daughter's cancer and my brother's cancer and my future grandchildren's cancer and their childrens cancer.....
Just some food for thought from someone who has yet to have the disease but has been deeply affected by it.