Kanga1: Day 1 "Pixie Dust and Panic Attacks"(PT3)

Kanga1

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Cast of Characters:

Jana (moi, 40, obsessive planner of this and all trips..think Chevy Chase in the ‘Vacation’ movies.)
Eric (DH, 41, a big “kid” at heart, pretty much goes with the flow and can have a good time anywhere as long as there’s good food.)
Anna Marie (4 year-old DD and true princess…any princess...pick one.)

This castle – this icon of magic and dreams coming true – was so grand and so glorious that it was not enough to just walk up to it. I wanted to go through it – to be Cinderella for a split second and waltz out the other side. So we did. DD and I, with clasped hands – swinging them in a special rhythm that only mothers and daughters can feel -glided past the intricate murals and right out into…Fantasyland. Suddenly, I could feel it…wonder, magic, imagination. I was 6 years old. Now, DD, I’m proud to say, holds more self-restraint than any 4 year-old I have ever encountered. You take her to the store and purposely take her down the toy aisle…and she is perfectly fine with just “looking”, as long as you tell her in advance that there will be no buying. So, when she saw the beautiful carousel with gleaming lights and horses dressed in their finery, she was content just to watch. After all, we were only coming to see the castle –we were not going to ride tonight. I, on the other hand, do not excel in the area of self-control – and am sure I was incapable of “just looking” at the age of 6, so when I saw the carousel had NO LINE we jumped right on! Ohhhh…that ride was magnificent…DD on one horse and me on another…spinning next to the castle and bobbing up and down to the music…I couldn’t BELIEVE we were at Disney! Besides, wouldn’t Daddy be surprised when we tell him there were no lines and we actually got on a ride! After Cinderella’s Golden Carousel, I looked at my watch…hmmm…only 8:10…and look…there’s Snow White’s Scary Adventures with NO LINE! DD and I had talked about this ride many times prior to our trip. She is a HUGE fan of Snow White (she’s her favorite princess) and she really wanted to ride this ride. I knew it was dark and scary in some places with the witch popping out from all sides…we had talked about this…a lot. So, I asked DD if she was sure she wanted to ride it. “Yes…I’ll try it.” No time to back out, we get right in front of the ‘Sneezy’ car and begin our journey through the forest. DD wants me to hold her close and she covers her eyes in a few places, but when all was said and done…she loved it. We would ride this ride about 6 more times in the coming days. Ok…time check…8:20. The line for Dumbo says 20 minutes. Now, any seasoned DISner knows that I should be getting back to DH and our viewing spot. But remember, I am now 6 years old and - for this brief period of time – have lost any form of adult responsibility. Dumbo was on our schedule for first thing in the morning, and since it boasts the longest lines in Fantasyland, it might be a good idea to go ahead and cross this one off our list. Besides, a 20 minute wait wasn’t bad. 20 minutes later, it is almost our turn when the adult in me begins to kick in. Maybe we have stayed too long; maybe we ought to be getting back; DH might be wondering what has happened to us. 8:40…it’s getting really late…but we’re on the next ride…we stay. We ride. It’s wonderful. Ok…hop to it…gotta get back to DH. Oh no…DD has to pee…should have thought of that. Must take her…she can’t hold it through Spectro and Wishes. Find restroom…go…wash hands. Now..hurry. We run up to the castle entrance where we just waltzed through not an hour ago and it’s blocked off. What? Why? Maybe the parade goes by the other side or something. No problem…I’ve studied the map enough to know that if I go left toward Tomorrowland there is a bridge I can cross that will take me back to Main Street. Yes…let’s do that. So we go, and when we come around the side of the castle I cannot believe my eyes. WHERE DID ALL THESE PEOPLE COME FROM??? They weren’t there when we left – and there was NOBODY in Fantasyland!! And here, folks, is where it all kicks in. I knew about this. Somewhere in the subconscious recesses of my mind, I knew why Fantasyland was empty…why we could walk on the Carousel and Snow White. Because EVERYBODY WAS LINED UP FOR THE PARADE!! It was crowded – “scary” crowded. People were lined up 5 and 6 deep from the street – bodies pressed so close together that Tinkerbell herself could not fit through. I pick up DD (no way could she walk through this mass of flesh) and try to make my way to the road. If I could just get out into the street, I could walk down the short distance to where my DH was sitting on the curb. No go. Too many people vying for every inch of space around, probably thinking I was trying to “cut” in front of them for a better view. Panic sets in. I panic and almost start to cry. I weave my way through people saying, “I’ve got to find my husband…got to find my husband.” DD is feeling my stress and begins to cry too. I am praying that DH is still there. Surely he would not have left to try to find me in this sea of people. I’m so stupid…what a stupid thing I’ve done. DH does not know the park at all; I have no cell phone or walkie talkie. First day here and not only will I have managed to miss the parade, but I will have lost my DH for hours on end. People are cheering…a CM must be entertaining somewhere. 9:00 and I can hear the music from down the street. Ok, Jana, get a grip. Take a deep breath and think. I’ll try to go “behind” the crowd. I can see the popcorn stand a few yards away…almost there. Stepped on someone’s foot…I’m so sorry. Finally, I made it to the popcorn stand. I can barely see my DH’s head still sitting on the curb. Try to get through to him…still too many people. I shout his name. “Eeerrriiicccc!!!” He turns, and when the crowd sees that I really do belong up there, that there is a seat for me and I’m not just going to pass and stand in front of them, they let me through. DD sits in her stroller and I apologize profusely to my DH for the horrible mistake I made that night. He was quite mad (a trait I rarely see in him) for a few seconds and then relief that we were alright washed all over his face. He knew me well enough to know that I had “lost my senses” in Fantasyland, but was deeply concerned about how I would ever find him in the crowd. We made a pact right then and there that we would never be apart without a phone or walkie talkie for the next 10 days. Crisis over. Lesson learned. Let’s watch the parade…here it comes. “On this magic night, a million stars will play beside us…”
Needless to say, I did not enjoy the parade nearly as I should have. I sat on that curb, literally shaking, cursing myself for being so irresponsible and thanking God that I had found DH and we were together as a family once again. We were only going up to see the castle. Despite all this, we did have a couple of magic moments during the parade – Minnie saw DD’s dress and blew kisses at her from the float, and Snow White came over, shook DD’s hand and told her what a pretty princess she was. We thought DD would faint right then and there…we’d been here less than 10 hours and already her favorite princess had picked her out of a crowd and complimented her! Spectro ended and we continued to discuss what had happened…me apologizing and DH trying to calm my frayed nerves. We were safe and DH was excited to hear about all the fun we’d had and all that we had ridden. Wishes began and I was so hoping that Tink would fly tonight. I had heard that she only flies in extremely perfect conditions (I’d have that requirement too if I were catapulting out of a castle on a thin little wire) and the weather tonight seemed ideal. Finally, it begins…and THERE SHE IS flying right in front of us! She looks in our direction and…waitaminute…she’s WAVING…at us…right AT US!!! Ok, I know…she was way way up and was only looking and waving in our “vicinity”, but when you’re at Disney and Snow White has just kissed your hand, then yes, definitely…Tink was waving AT US! Wishes continued and it was spectacular. I wanted to see it at least once more, but the opportunity never presented itself. I hope it’s there the next time we go – I never even took one picture.

Now it’s time to exit with the masses. I know they say to hang back a bit, let the horde of people leave the park before you, enjoy the scenery…but when you are sitting on a curb in the MIDDLE of all that chaos, well, then, your only choice is to move with them or be trampled to death. My heart starts racing again and I tell DH to keep a hand on me for dear life while I push the stroller (although we were smart enough to make a plan, that if we got separated we would meet at the entrance to the CR walkway.) [Stepping up to podium to make a speech] Ahem. I would like to take this time to discuss my theory on the great “stroller hitting the ankles” discussion. It has been talked about in great length on the DIS boards WHY some people constantly keep hitting the person in front of them with their stroller. I think I know the answer. Now I want to say that I never once the entire trip hit anyone with my stroller (nor did anyone hit me), but as we were making our way down Main Street, DH kept telling me, “Watch…you almost ran into that lady with the stroller.” The reason this was happening was because I could not actually see the end of it. I am all of 5’2” and could not see beyond the canopy on the top of the stroller. Between that and the fact that our Jeep is much shorter (those park strollers are extremely long) I was constantly misjudging the distance. I took note of this and kept a safe distance from then on. So…the next time someone hits you in the back of the leg, look at their height. If they’re short, they probably didn’t hit you on purpose…unless you came to a sudden stop or walked directly in front of them…then it’s “your” fault. ;) Thanks for your attention and have a magical day. [Stepping down from podium]
DH returned the stroller and I stood in the short line to receive our Disney dollar. The CM must have seen my 10 day’s worth of stroller tickets, for he informed me that I did not have to claim my refund daily…I could get all 10 dollars on the last day. Great! One less thing to worry about each evening and we’d have a whole $10 to spend on our last day. DH and I discuss whether we should take the monorail back to CR or just walk. The amount of people heading for the monorail is many and besides, we could be halfway home (home…did you hear me say that?) in the time it took us to get to the station. It’s getting late (about 11:00) and we’ve all be up for 18 hours. DH asks DD if she wants him to carry her. “No, Daddy…I’ll walk.” She’s such a trooper. When we open the door to our room I see piles of luggage everywhere. Oh no…we haven’t unpacked yet! I’m a terrible neat freak and there was no way I was going to be able to go to bed with this mess all around me. Besides, I didn’t really see any other time to do this. We had an early start tomorrow and the vacation can’t really begin until I have a neat room to come “home” to. I tuck DD in bed and she falls to sleep immediately (big surprise.) I tell DH that he can go on to bed, I’ll work quietly. No doing…he wants to help (bless his heart) so we unpack and get everything in its place. Lights go off at 1:00am. I had been up for 20 hours. Now, you’d think that I’d be asleep before my head hit the pillow, right? WRONG! The adrenaline was just pumping through my body. Excitement for finally being here, panic still reeling in me from MK, trip reports running through my head, body fighting total exhaustion. My final look at the clock said 3:30am.

"Planning or Obsession...What's the Difference?"
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=857133

"Our Vacation Begins"
http://www.disboards.com/showthread...370#post9138370

Day 1 "Pixie Dust and Panic Attacks" (Part 1)
http://www.disboards.com/showthread...210#post9143210

Day 1 "Pixie Dust and Panic Attacks" (Part 2)
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=9143244#post9143244
 
Enjoyed reading your report ~ Thanx for posting.
 

Your excitement is getting me excited for my trip! Only 13 Days left....(my counter is wrong) :Pinkbounc :bounce: :Pinkbounc :bounce: :Pinkbounc :bounce:
 
I just loved hoe excited you were with your beautiful daughter in Fantsyland. Can't wait till the next part.

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That is the sweetest picture. I could totally relate to turning into a child again. That will be me. My DH says it all the time.
 
I totally feel for your fear. I lost my husband a couple of years ago. I went to the Spa at SSR and was to meet my DH at MK for dinner and the parade. After my massage, I was told that it would be quicker to walk to DTD and catch a bus to MK (SSR wasn't open yet). I shouldn't have listened, but I trusted them. I hiked to DTD and waited for a bus. The bus came late, I had to wait for them to load the wheelchairs when the lift broke half way up. Oh my god, that person was stuck and couldn't get on or off the bus. It took almost 30 min for another bus to come and that driver got out and attempted to help. Needless to say, I was late for my dinner reservation and my DH had begun to look for me. I think that we must have passed a couple of times in the park. My massage was useless and I resorted to crying and waiting on a bench just outside the train station. I was so late I missed the only showing of the Mainstreet Electric parade of our stay. I was a mess. DH finally found me and was so glad. We sat outside the MK and he just held me.

Like you, we decided that we would never separate unless we had the cells or walkie talkies.

We are going again this summer and are separating again, but we will bring our cell phones.
 
Thanks everyone for the nice replies. This has been taking me so long to write...I have to have complete silence to concentrate, and with a 4 year-old, those times are few and far between! However, I've loved reliving every second of our trip over again. - and everytime I read it in the future - will do so again. :goodvibes

I have Days 2 and 3 finished and will get them posted as soon as possible. :flower:
 
I could so feel your excitement and fear. I definately would have done the same thing in Fantasyland, without doubt :flower: . off to read some more,

Claire xx
 
Oh, Oh....I KNOW your parade issue!!!! Except I didn't manage to get to my hubby & other kids! ROFL!!!! So, I got to see the parade, via "through people's shoulders" but at least DS-8 got to stand on a ledge and see above their heads!

It was the bathroom break that did us in - right before the parade was going to start, it was coming down the street when we got back!

Also, know exactly what you are talking about with the panic feeling of no way of communicating!
 












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