I wasn't bragging. What I said was 'everything is relative'...in fact, I believe I said it twice. A SAHM most likely wouldnt spend nearly as much on clothing as the CEO or VP in an office. There IS a standard for professional attire, like it or not. A traveling salesman/rep would need a newish car for safety reasons rather than a 10 year old car that lots of us drive, regardless of Dave Ramsey thinks. We all have individual needs and priorities.
As for the PP who said something like 'those people don't know what it's like to have to worry about survival'....um, yes, I do. I have been homeless, bankrupt, and struggled to feed 3 children on a modest income as a single parent. There were times when we only had ramen noodles or beans to eat but we ate and I did without in order to provide my family with what they needed.
Is there any reason why I am not allowed to give MY opinion on this subject because my frame of reference is different from other people's? Why I should refrain from adding my two cents on this forum because I no longer have to worry about every little penny? Are my contributions less valid because I don't mow my own grass??? I thought the whole reason for posting on an open forum was to get different viewpoints and experiences. Last I looked, freedom of speech was still allowed in this country.
Anyway, as I said...'luxury' and 'necessity' are personal definitions. I've been to Italy but I've never had a mani/pedi, never owned a Coach bag or paid more than $50 to get my cut AND color done. We all have our priorities...who are we to judge another's?