Shakes are good. Just don't drink through a straw. You can suck the clot out and get a dry socket.
DS got his out a year ago. He ate ice cream, pudding, soup, Jello. Then he went to soft foods like mac and cheese, tuna salad, etc.
He got his out about 4 or 5 days before we went on vacation. It made vacation interesting, but he was eating soft foods by then and just being careful. Can't say he wanted hard tacos or anything like that, but he was feeling pretty normal and not needing pain meds. He really did quite well.
But he's a swimmer and he had to wait at least a week before they'd let him back in the pool. The doc said no matter how clean you keep a pool, there are germs. And the last thing you want is a germ getting down in the bone. Yikes. Get well quick.