Dear Goofy4
I didn't see any evidence what so ever of mold or mildew. As far as Grouchy Cms they were nowhere to be seen. Rumor has it they all left the Company and went to work for Universal, Just Kidding. In fact all the Cms were great. What I observed was the guests that were grouchy.
The Pool was warm and the slide closed at 8

o pm.
If you plan to spend the day there I would suggest getting there early while the children are in the parks, once it starts to get busy it may be hard to find a table.
I watched wishes from the GCH, The beach and inside the MK.
The best place in my opinion Is inside the MK as the Fireworks surround you and the music is a lot louder. I could hardly here the music from the beach.
I have stayed at the Hawaii and the Tahiti, this time we requested the Samoa and had the Raratonga as our second choice. We ended up in the Raratonga room 1812 we had a view of the quiet pool. I think I liked this longhouse best of all. Our room was at the end of the hall but it was close to everything, the GCH, Bus stop, Pools, Guest laundry and was a short walk to the TTC. You cannot go wrong by choosing the Raratonga.
Yes we did eat at Ohanas it was one of the Highlights of our trip.
Our kids were 6 and 10 and loved it. I am not sure if a three year old would enjoy it as much. But I wouldn't be afraid of giving it a try. I did the Luau when my littlest one was 5 and she loved it as much as us.
I used the Official Disney Guide to Walt Disney World by Bob Sehlinger to make up Our schedule. Attached is our actual schedule. Although the crowds were heavier than we were used to they were still very manageable, wait times were usually around 20 to 30 minutes on stand by. We did take advantage of fast past. With you having a 3 year old make sure you take advantage of Baby swap.
MNSSHP was crowded we had changed our day from Wednesday to Friday due to weather. I thing a lot more locals go on Fridays.
Our Schedule
10/13/04 WEDNESDAY DEPART SACRAMENTO 1:07: PM Arrive Orlando 10:55 pm Hyatt Regency
10/14/04 THURSDAY MGM Park Hours 9:00 am to 7:30 Pm
Fantasmic 7:30 Pm
10/15/04 FRIDAY MAGIC KINGDOM Park Hours 9:00 am to 10:00 Pm
Crystal Palace Dinner Time 6:50 PM SpectroMagic 9:00 pm Wishes 10

o Pm
10/16/04 SATURDAY EPCOT Park Hours 9:00 am to 9:00 Pm
San Angel Lunch Time 1:00 PM Illumnations 9:00 Pm
10/17/04 SUNDAY EPCOT Park Hours 9:00 am to 9:00 Pm
Beaches and Cream Illumnations 9:00 Pm
10/18/04 MONDAY BLIZZARD BEACH THEN EPCOT Park Hours 10:00 am to 5:00 Pm
10/19/04 TUESDAY REST DAY
Mickeys Backyard BBQ 6:30pm
10/20/04 WEDNESDAY MAGIC KINGDOM MNSSHP Park Hours 9:00 am to 6:00 Pm
Plaza Restraunt Lunch Time 1:10 PM Share a dream come true parade 3:00 pm
10/21/04 THURSDAY Animal Kingdom Park Hours 9:00 am to 5:00 Pm
Rain Forest Café Lunch Mickeys Jammin Jungle Parade 4:00 Pm
10/22/04 FRIDAY MGM Park Hours 9:00 am to 7:30 Pm
Hollywood & Vine 4:40 pm
10/23/04 SATURDAY OPEN DAY
10/24/04 SUNDAY DEPART ORLANDO INTERNATIONAL 5:55:AM Arrive Sacramento 10:50 am
Hope this helps
Enjoy your trip
Sincerly
Searl