I love reading this thread. I absolutely love DL and can't wait to take the kids to DW hopefully sometime in the next couple of years. For those that have been, what age would you say the youngest child should be to hopefully have the stamina to do DW and to go on the slides at the water park? I'm guessing it's not so easy to take breaks in the middle of the day at DW like it is at DL. Do you usually stay all day?
I think that any age of child is fun for WDW. Now if WDW will be a once in a lifetime sort of thing, then I think say 7 and 9 would be good. If you aren't of the mindset that it will be a onetime only thing, than anytime you can go is great.
WDW is very large. I think park hopping with young kids can be a mistake. If you do hop, with younger kids, I think its best to go to one park, take a resort break then go back to another park. Not hop between parks at random like you can at DL. Because at WDW, it does take way more time. I think the water parks are great for younger kids. They have areas that are for noting but kids. Small slides, themed areas with splash zones etc, I think actually the waterparks are must do's. Disney Quest is best for older kids. Its mega stimulation, it has a lot of height requirements and in my opinion best for the over 10 set. My husband can spend 12 hours in there reliving his adolesence with all those 1980's games, but for young kids, its just not that fun and too much to handle. I know our first trip to WDW my kids were 8 and 10 and we only spent a couple of hours as my 8 year old dd couldn't do much. Now four years later, we spend a whole day there and don't want to leave!
I also think its key to stay onsite when you have kids. Disney resorts, of all levels have much to offer kids. For example All Star Music which is a value level resort has poolside games, movies at night by the pool, huge icons and a food court. The other values also have the icons and theming but not the games and movie nights Music does. But where else in the world can you wake up to a giant statue of Lady and the Tramp or Woody outside your window? The moderate level resorts have pools with slides, theming, bike rentals etc. And then of course the deluxe level resorts have proximity to a theme park (some on the monorail), incredilbe pools, activities for kids, you name it. And when you stay onsite, you know you have transporation to the parks at your disposal. And you can take advantage of longer hours if you choose to do the Extra Magic Hours.
I also think you have to pick your game plan. Do you want to get up early and get to rope drop each day? Good plan but know that if you do that with young kids, you'll miss the nighttime shows most likely. We aren't early risers, have done rope drop exactly once in 12 trips to WDW and still manage to avoid lines even during peak seasons. We do however, tend to stay late. We can do that becasue we know we'll be rested from sleeping in. We also try to plan at least one day where we stay around the resort to swim and just relax and regroup. We tend to do this mid trip. And I think you need at least 7 days for your first trip to WDW.
To me WDW vs. DL isn't that much out of the ballpark for little kids. At both, you walk a lot, you wait some, you get overstimulated. Taking a midday break at WDW does take a bit more time. However, it would be very rare for you to wait longer than 30 minutes for a bus to take you back to your resort. No bus takes longer than 15 minutes max to get from a park to a resort. And really anda truly, it generally takes less time. The WDW transporation system isn't perfect, but its pretty amazing.
So while I think you do have to be careful about not overdoing it at WDW you can still have a relaxing fun time. And each WDW park has a ton to offer for little kids. There are playgrounds, splash zones, character meals in each park, the charactr meet and greets are set up better and the WDW parks being newer, don't have the narrow walkways that DL does.
And there are three basic levels of tickets at WDW.
MYW Base tickets. No hopping, no extras
MYW Park Hoppers: Can park hop between the four theme parks, but no waterparks or Disney Quest
MYW Premium tickets that allow you to go the waterparks and hop.
You can mix and match. For example you can get a base ticket and then add on the waterpark option but not the hopping. You can buy base tickets, get there, scope things out and then add on options if you feel you need to after you arrive. Hopping and Waterpark and More options run $50 each, per ticket to the base price. You can also add on the non expiration option which would mean any unused days are good forever. But its very expensive to do that.
I think the best website to find out prices on resorts and tickets is
www.allearsnet.com They have tons of information, slide shows for each resort to give you a feel for all of them and cost analysis of ticket options, the various dining plans etc. It sounds like a lot of planning but if you have been to DL, you know quite a bit and spending a few hours looking over that website will give you a great idea. That website also has lots of information on the waterparks, DQ and all the other things to do around WDW. And menus and pricing for each and every restaurant.
I will say the one thing that WDW does have that makes little kids at times miserable is the heat and humidty. But October through May is nice and during the summer if you either go early or stay late, you'll avoid the worst of it. The weather is why I say you can't do 12+ hour stretches at the parks. When my kids were little we did very long days sometimes without breaks at DL. At WDW in the summer, we just can't do that. And since our WDW trips are generally longer in length than a DL trip, its important to pace ourselves!
I hope that helped and didn't just sound like a bunch of garble!