""I really only have a few comments about your post:
1). Why do you even go to Disney, it sounds like a horrible place based on your description.""
I have never implied Disney is a horrible place - I have only suggested that you are unaware of the obstacles that those of us using an
ECV have to encounter. And that not all of them are our fault or are avoidable no matter how polite you are.
""2). If your family doesn't stay behind with you, I suggest having a heart to heart with them before you leave. You're mad at people in your way because your family doesn't stay behind? It seems to me that your anger is misdirected.""
I am not at all mad that my family walks on ahead. I prefer it that way - they can see what attractions have long lines and which don't and can work their way to them. I am back just far enough that I can follow them through crowds. This is only when it is crowded, mind you, if we luck out and the walkways are relatively open we are together - but if we are "fighting traffic" it is easier for me to hang back a little ways so they can make a hole in the crowd for me to follow than it is for me to try to do it. And I don't believe I ever said I was "mad" at the people who cut across the space that I leave. No, I don't like it, I deliberately try to leave space so I don't hit anyone and if someone inconsiderate enough to step into that foot or two of space that I left then I am frustrated, yes, mad - no. Now, if they walk in the space that I left and I have to let off my speed and somebody behind me isn't paying attention and stumbles over me then I am more upset. Not at the person who stumbles over me, but at the one who made me stop, causing the "accident" because they are long gone and the person who stumbles thinks I am just another one of those "inconsiderate ECV drivers"
""3). Do you think strollers are that much different? We've been 4 times with a stroller, and take the polite approach, it works fine. You'll find an exception frequent enough, but just as you find people inconsiderate in line. I have seen rude people on the ECVs, with strollers and I have seen rude walkers.""
I did strollers for years with my kids - and yes, I do think, as a driver, strollers are a little different. When you stop walking the stroller stops going (unless you push it on ahead of you) With the ECV when you let off it still rolls just a little bit even though you feel like you are coming to a jerking stop - and that is just if you let go completely to avoid a collision. If you ease off of it so you don't have such a jerky stop then you are still moving forward with a very heavy machine. As far as the space it takes up and people around you not paying attention - in that way - yes strollers and ECV's are similar - but bottom line is if someone cuts off a walker or a stroller and gets "hit" it won't hurt near as much as if they cut off an ECV and get "hit". I am aware of that and try to avoid as much congestion as possible
""From many of the posts I see here, people are so prepared for "looks", people walking in front of them, and rudeness, that they probably are a bit sensitive to begin with. There are wayyy too many stressed, angry, impatient people. You will not get anywhere by thinking a horn, or sign will solve your problem. How about getting some of the Disney spirit and trying patience and politeness?""
In this case I know you are not addressing me (or at least shouldn't be) I do not put signs on my cart or use my horn. I don't pay much attention to the looks or comments that may go on around me - I am there to enjoy my vacation not worry about what a complete stranger thinks of me. But I am big on personal space I don't like being unnecessarily crowded - I know Disney can be a crowded place, and if we are leaving after fireworks I expect to be in crowds, but if we are in line, people don't need to use the back of my seat to lean on, or the bottom platform as their foot rest, I also don't expect to have to sit and wait for half the park to rush past before I can move. I don't mind being polite and have some Disney spirit - that is what I go there for, but I also don't feel that being polite and Disney-ish means that you let everyone walk all over you (literally or figuratively)
We are going on 2 more trips before the end of the year, and back again in June. That will be 4 trips in a 12 month period, obviously I wouldn't be going so often if the bad outweighed the good. If I couldn't use an ECV I would not be going at all, so obviously there is more good to the ECV than bad also.
And despite this exchange, I believe if we actually encountered each other at Disney neither of us would have a problem with the others behavior.