While we are sad if anyone decides to leave VMK or the DIS everyone gets mad and upset from time to time and if we allowed these types of threads the boards would be a mess. Also we have found that after the person who wants to quit or leave calms down they sometimes change their minds.
We do not like losing members here and we do not like losing friends on VMK.
Take a step back, take a break, sleep on it and things are usually brighter in the morning