lil mermaid
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Back in May of this year, I lost my enagement ring. I looked for it and looked for it, but it never turned up. I didn't even tell my insurance company about it for a whole month because I hoped that it would show up.
Well, I finally received my payout for it last week. (Not because of the insurance company dragging their feet - it was me. I was hoping it would show up!) The payout that I received was less than it would cost me to replace the diamond, but luckily my Mom is good friends with a diamond wholesaler in New York. He felt bad and as a favor to my Mom, sold me the stone at his cost.
The new diamond is the same size as my old one, same ideal cut, one clarity grade down but two color grades up. The price of a stone with the same specs on Blue Nile was $3000 more than what we paid for it, and in checking with other jewelers, more like $4000-5000 more. (Full retail, without any discounts.) I also bought a new mounting for l ess than half of what the full retail would be for it. We ended up paying about $700 more than the insurance payout.
So here is the question - what if my original ring shows up? I asked the insurance guy several months ago what would happen if it turned up after my claim was settled. He said that I either had to send the ring to them or send them a check. They didn't make me sign anything and also I haven't seen any paperwork from them stating this so I am wondering if they really expect that. I mean, I paid premiums for years and in good faith filed a claim. I got what I paid for. But on the other hand, say the ring turns up in 10 years or something. Then, if I keep it, I guess I would have made money on the loss??
So I guess these are the choices : Send them a check for several thousand dollars, send them a ring that is worth way more than the amount they paid me, send them my original engagement ring (worth more than what they paid me), which is worth quite a bit more than they paid me and also has more emotional value than the new ring.
What would you do? Insurance people, what do you think?
BTW this is totally hypothetical because I think my original ring is gone for good :-(
Well, I finally received my payout for it last week. (Not because of the insurance company dragging their feet - it was me. I was hoping it would show up!) The payout that I received was less than it would cost me to replace the diamond, but luckily my Mom is good friends with a diamond wholesaler in New York. He felt bad and as a favor to my Mom, sold me the stone at his cost.
The new diamond is the same size as my old one, same ideal cut, one clarity grade down but two color grades up. The price of a stone with the same specs on Blue Nile was $3000 more than what we paid for it, and in checking with other jewelers, more like $4000-5000 more. (Full retail, without any discounts.) I also bought a new mounting for l ess than half of what the full retail would be for it. We ended up paying about $700 more than the insurance payout.
So here is the question - what if my original ring shows up? I asked the insurance guy several months ago what would happen if it turned up after my claim was settled. He said that I either had to send the ring to them or send them a check. They didn't make me sign anything and also I haven't seen any paperwork from them stating this so I am wondering if they really expect that. I mean, I paid premiums for years and in good faith filed a claim. I got what I paid for. But on the other hand, say the ring turns up in 10 years or something. Then, if I keep it, I guess I would have made money on the loss??
So I guess these are the choices : Send them a check for several thousand dollars, send them a ring that is worth way more than the amount they paid me, send them my original engagement ring (worth more than what they paid me), which is worth quite a bit more than they paid me and also has more emotional value than the new ring.
What would you do? Insurance people, what do you think?
BTW this is totally hypothetical because I think my original ring is gone for good :-(