Jay-nee's journal

I am with the others, Jay-nee! You will blow that exercise goal out of the water just trying to get to Space Mountain before the crowd. Pick up the pace a couple of times throughout the day and you will have lots of walking to include in your exercise goal. ::yes::

Tell Mickey I miss him! ::MickeyMo
 
Have an awesome time! Bring some florida warmth and sun back up north!!! :cool1:
 
Hi Jay-nee! :wave:

I know you're at WDW, basking in the warmth and sunshine, but I just got caught up on your journal and wanted to leave a note for when you get back.

You're doing GREAT! Your dedication to exercise is really paying off and those pounds are melting away. You've made great progress already! ::yes::

Hope you have a great trip, and a safe drive home. Best wishes for your marriage issues - I know how hard that can be. :hug:
 

I hope you are having a wonderful, relaxing, magical time with your family.. OK.. maybe not so relaxing.. It is Disney World!!!! Can't wait to hear all about your trip!! Miss ya! :wave2:
 
I'm back and 5.5 lbs lighter! I have now lost 23 lbs total! We walked and walked everywhere. Told the walkway between EPCOT and MGM so many times, I can't count.

Plus, we walked the resort (POR) a bunch of times, walked everywhere.

Also, I stuck to my eating plan. I had raisen bran with skim milk each morning with a 1/2 of a banana or orange. For lunch, usually a salad and 1/2 of sandwich. For dinner, split an order of something NON-alfredo! :teeth: So proud. Honestly, I did not feel deprived as I had a VERY small (tip of spoon) bite of some of my sons and daughters deserts when they ordered them, but they are learning healthy eating from MOM! Now, that's a legacy.

We were able to go swimming 4 times for 20-30 minutes each time. It was awesome.

We did go to Boma for dinner on DDs 11th Bday and for breakfast on COLD Monday (01/24/05). But, I really thought about what would be a good selection and didn't even leave full.

I had water with every meal and did not order any other drink. Occassionally, I had a sip of DD or DS soda, but just a sip. They ordered water alot too or that very nasty lemonade, ugh!

So, I will be setting up my new clippie in a few minutes, how exciting!!!!

BTW, thanks to ALL of my well-WISHers for a fun vacation. We had an OK time, I will fill in more soon, but we just got in at 8am this morning (we left yesterday at 8am and drove straight through), so I am BEAT!

So, the moral is...if I can do it ANYONE can! :) :flower: :) :flower:
 
Welcome back Jay-nee! I'm glad you did so well with your eating on vacation...you are a role model for us all! Can't wait to hear how the trip went...you missed some snow. :cold:
 
Jay - nees Back!!! Jay - nee's back!!! YAY!!!! :cool1:

You did awesome on your trip! I am proud of you! I hope that you and your famliy were able to spend some quality family time together!!! Can't wait to hear about your whole trip!!! :sunny:

Jen
 
Wow, Jay-nee!! You lost weight at WDW!!! I know all of the walking at WDW really adds up -- with your good food choices, you made it a successful vacation! I look forward to hearing all about your trip!

Remember the rule - FIRST the WISH board, THEN the laundry. ;)
 
How much everyone wants to know about the trip, so I will give the "highlights" and feel free to ask for more... :)

The downside of the trip and probably why I am not posting much lately is, I think DH and I are calling it quits. So, you can probably figure out how well the trip went. :guilty: It was really not good overall... There were good moments and fun times, but alot of tension and a general feeling of not wanting to be where we were. Isn't that sad... It really bums me out to think about our happy place like that, but it was hard on all of us... The kids are at my DMs for the week for some down time, so I'm home alone and it's been about a month of hell for my family.

So, the trip... The drive down was not fun, DH and I were on opposite sides of the world and I could feel the tension from day 1. I just kept trying though to pretend like everything was ok, but when we stopped in NC, I lost it because he wouldn't tell me what was up. You have to understand, we promised each other and the kids that we were committed to having FUN. God, don't make promises you can't keep in life, it just sucks so bad. Problem is, the kids are now 14 and 11 and you can't snow job them if things aren't good, they just know...

Well, we headed for WDW anyway (should have headed home) for DDs 11th Bday! She did have a good time. Swam in the really, really warm pool (it was like bathwater and it just felt good to be warm all over again!). Had a great room in POR at Magnolia Terrace on the second floor, just feet from the "quiet" pool. Played tag as a family and had a really good time. Then off to Boma's for a great dinner. The Boma folks even gave my DD a Bday card and all signed it with little messages. It was a nice touch and she really needed the boost. Then off to DTD to find the Violet doll (never found her and spent a good part of the vacation trying). They do have a Violet doll, but it's not the right one (you'd have to know my DD :flower: ). Then back to the hotel for a pretty good nights sleep.

DS and I are the early risers so we headed down to the food court for breakfast almost every morning to bring back breakfast.

Then off to the parks. We had short lists for each parks because we just were there for 16 days back in Sept/Oct, so I'll give the high points. We met and got autographs from Mr and Mrs Incredible and Frozone. Plus, we discovered the coolest thing in the Animation Tour (which we hadn't been on in years), they'll teach you to draw a character. We did this 3 times over our vacation, we drew Stitch, Pluto, and Goofy. The whole family loved this! We saw the crazy plumbers in MGM 2 or 3 times, they are so funny! I think they are DHs favorite thing at WDW now. We went in the pool 4 times in the week. We saw Fantasmic and Illuminations the same night (we love to do that!). We saw the Spectromagic parade without getting stepped on (always a plus). Did the Pirates of the Carribbean game at DQ and got Kings of the Carribbean (we were bummed because we usually win it, but it was fun).

We had some great meals. We love the Plaza Restaurant, had 2 meals there. We had breakfast at Boma's - DSs request. We had dinner at Bongos, it was ok. We had dinner at Les Chefs de France, it was totally awesome! Had the best Merlot ever ther to the tune of 11.95 a glass, but it was heaven (coming from a very occassional drinker). DS had escargot and Lobster Bisque and I think was the happiest kid on the planet! :) He loves interesting foods. We ate at Columbia Harbor House, it was ok. Oh yeah, we had the ribs at Flame Tree BBQ, pretty good. But, the ribs at Boatwrights are the best. We ate there on our last night, yummy. I figures I could have them to split with the family because I had been sooooo good the whole trip. We had a really, really nice lunch at Cinderella's Royal Table. Also, a nice lunch at Tony's Town Square, DS also loves panini! We discovered that DH does not like panini. :) We had an excellent meal at 50's prime time, that resaturant is so fun, I used to hate it, but I am relaxing in my older age (39 yrs very young!).

We rode Stitch and LOVED it, it's fun. I read the reviews and decided to try to not compare it to AE. Just tried to enjoy the show. It's nothing spectactual, but it's fun. BTW, DD was scared the 1st time, so she wanted to go on it once more before we left, and we did! Then, she loved it!

We went on TTA (we love that!) and got to see Space Mountain with the lights on, that was soooooo awesome! I love that when that happens!

Saw FotLK twice, the 1st time was awesome, but the second time sucked. The people in front of us were PAINS IN THE NECK. They talked through the whole show. Rude people bite. But that is such a great show.

Rode Primevil Whirl two times in a row, it was so cool. That thing spins so fast sometimes! Very cool...

Well, that's about it for now, my fingers are so tired...

Ask away my WISH buddies... what do you want to know?
 
:grouphug: Jay-nee

I am so sorry to hear your difficulties with DH. I can't tell you how much I identified with your post. December 2002 was our "last trip" to WDW and a divorce followed shortly thereafter. I had put so much expectation and hope on the trip to bring the family together but instead it was such a stark comparison of "the happiest place on earth" and "the unhappiest family on earth". I hope you can make things work best for you and your kids. My DD was 12 and she picked up on all the stress. We had a huge blow up in the car and she still talks about it from tiime to time. Its so sad.

BUT, the parts of your trip report that had to do with Disney sounded great! I can't wait to do Stitch. We were there in Oct this year and it hadn't opened yet.

I really hope things turn around for you. Take good care of yourself, and reassure your kids that you love them everyday.

Sunny
 
:grouphug: Jay-nee,

I'm sorry things were strained, but it sounds like you still managed to make some special memories for your kids. I am sorry to hear that it looks like the marriage isn't going to work. How are you holding up? Please know that I am praying for you and your family. This is a safe place for you to come and express yourself. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Beth
 
Beth and Sunny. I am doing okay, just so dissappointed. I know it sounds typical, but I did not see this coming at all. Now, don't get me wrong, we've had our ups and downs, but 2 years ago we recommitted to each other and were, in both our opinions (until recently), making great headway. And, then, one day, he just ups and says that he is not happy with the direction his life is going and needs to make some big changes. Assuming that meant me and the kids were along for the ride too, I thought no biggie... No, it did not include us...

I can't believe I am writing this... But, I'm am just so dumbfounded... I shouldn't be, but I am...

I'm going to a couselor for me today. Cancelled the couples couselor yesterday, no need... Thankfully the kids are up at DMs and having a really good time. I miss them alot but I'm glad there not here. This is the longest I've ever been away from them. But, just across the street from DMs is my sisters, so they are having fun with their cousins too. They are learning that they have a support system whenever they need it.

Sunny, yes, huge blowup on car ride home. I just wish we hadn't gone and know that he just faked it through, what's the point of that anyway? Lies suck. Be honest in life and at least people always know where you stand, they may not like it, but they know.

My kids know how much I love and care for them, that was part of the problem, DH doesn't have a relationship with either and I've been playing both roles forever. DH blames me of course. My motto is you get out of it what you put in... I let them know everyday that they are my priority in life. They are great (understatement) and I will be so pissed if this screws them up.

Trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel now...

Thanks again...
 
Oh Jay-nee! :grouphug: I am so sorry... I can't even begin to understand how you feel, but I want you to know you can use me as part of your support system any time! I really wanted this trip to be what you needed it to be and I am sorry that wasn't the case.

Your children will know (maybe not now, but they will know) how much you love and support them. It is good that you are letting them find their support system!

Please let me know if there is anything I can do! :grouphug:
 
:hug: Jay-nee,

I wish that I could make this better for you. I think that you are really smart to continue the counselling on your own. I think it is great that your kids can spend time with their extended family. They will be ok. be honest with them, and show them that you love them everyday. In other words, do what you are doing.

I'll be thinking of you.

Take care,
Beth
 
jaynee--i am so sorry to hear that--big hugs to you--i know i cant understand, but vent away anytime you need to--venting is great!!
just wanted to let you konw im here for ya too !
 
How are you Jay-nee! I am just checking in on you! Hope all is well! (as well as can be expected!) :grouphug:
 
well, to fill my WISH buddies in... DH is back and says he's 100% committed. Will be doing lots of couseling for me, him, us, and kids too. Hopefully, this is for real.

I am doing ok. Just hoping that we are making the right choice and that we can both get back on track and IMPROVE so that we don't ever do anything like this again, ever. Honestly, if any of you knew my family, you would have been floored by this (as I was) at this point, we were just so there with each other...

Hopefully, we will grow stronger in this together and move forward...

I will post soon with WI and exercise stuff, just to crazy right now to take the time.

God bless to all who have prayed for my family during this truly rough period in our lives... Hopefully none of you are going through anything like this at all, ever! :grouphug:
 















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