Thank you to all the Snowbirds that responded to my dilemma of Dining Plan or Deluxe Dining Plan.

I will share the ideas with DH and go over all the restaurants that we wish to visit and are going to visit. I do wish to stress, I am extremely thankful for all responses as it shed new light on some items I missed on my pro and con list.
This will also bring up the question of, is it possible to upgrade your Dining Plan, if you have already paid for your package? We still have some time before fully deciding but I think we will have to act quick for more ADRs if we are considering it. I will have to contact our
travel agent with that one.
I am finding it very hard to talk to DH about all of our arrangements. It is his family with the Disney bug. This will only be my third trip and our children's second so I would like any guidance he wishes to see on how our trip is going. He is a laid back planner, more seat of the pants type fellow, and sometimes we miss so much doing it that way. Luckily, if I decide to do whatever, no complaints, he will gladly follow along. I just want a decision on how much financially we should go for, as we have saved for most, but with our Canadian $'s decline, I didn't plan for that much variance. Sorry for my ramblings.
Thank you again, for all that responded to my family's dining dilemmas.
Remmy