We did them on our first cruise. It was really fun, but now it seems they are a lot more involved. We opted out this time because Dave and I are on a second honeymoon of sorts, and have decided to do pretty much everything with as little planning as possible once we touch down in FL. Our lives here at home are so regimented, scheduled, etc. Very happy but extremely busy. We joke around that if our kids weren't in sports we'd never see each other

I am looking forward to a vacation with absolutely not one list, lol (besides our packing list and itinerary-which are already done

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Our kids aren't coming on this trip either, and the FEs were more for them last time.
With different circumstances we would be more apt do the FE.