Hi, All -
Pdarrah, the website is wonderful. You are really talented. Thanks for all the work that goes into putting it together!
I have been out of the loop for a few weeks but am getting back on track now. DH accepted a new position last month which is very exciting but requires him to travel alot. We have both laughed at how out of practice we are at being apart and how naive we were thinking we could just jump back into this lifestyle. I have had to relearn being a "single" parent again and all the ultra-organization that goes into juggling my job, house, dog, bills while still being an attentive mommy to DD and DS. He's having to relearn how to pack, travel, and is a bit lonesome for us. DD (11) doesn't really remember all of DH's deployments before he retired from the military but having DS (18) home right now has been a real blessing.
Last night, after DH called, I think both DD and I realized we were getting this down...............I don't need so many notes around the house to remind me of everything I need to do and she said she finally "gets" what the three of us meant when we (DH, DS and I) talked about compartmentalizing - she is really excited about planning for DH's return next week after a month away.
And, we both enjoyed the calm of a quiet Friday night as last week found us in the ER after she sliced her hand. Long story but I called DS (18) to tell him not to meet us at the restaurant for dinner as we were ER bound and he got on the phone with her and calmed her right down..........cuz she knew she was going to get some stitches. Talk about stepping up to the plate. When the two of them were talking on the phone was one of those moments that I take a deep breath and commit the moment to memory because I am so grateful that they love each other so much.
Of course, its Saturday morning...........I've been up since 4 - have done two loads of laundry, checked my e-mail at work, fed the dog, shopped on-line at the Talbot's sale and am going to start paying the bills before we head to her soccer game (just to watch because she still can't play) and then this afternoon it is time to finish on her Science Fair project. Notice how I squeezed that little shopping excursion in!!
I cannot wait until our cruise..............I am so looking forward to being aboard the Magic, again. Although, I did send DH an e-mail last week and ask if he was interested in the Repo Cruise in August of 2007. What caught my eye was the 5 days at sea. I also included the list of prices which may be why he hasn't answered my question, yet!!
Pdarrah, thank you again for the website. I e-mailed the link to DH just to give him something fun to focus on!
Take care, all!