A 135mm F2.8 would be great but it may be difficult to find that lens, it's not currently available new.
The best cheap solution would probably be to start with a 50mm F1.4 lens for about $200. You can get an idea of how close this will be by zooming your kit lens to almost as far as it can go (it goes to 55mm.) This lens won't get you closer, but it will work much, much better in low light.
If you wanted to get really serious, Pentax's 50-135mm F2.8 lens would probably work very well, it's very highly rated, but it is a "star" lens which means very high-quality construction (including weathersealing), in-lens focus motor (which your camera could use, on older DSLRs it'd focus with a motor in the camera like your kit lens does - the in-lens motor is much quieter)... and it's not cheap. It goes for about $750 or so, off the top of my head. This will get you a lot closer and give you better low-light ability than you can get with the kit lens.
If you wanted even more zoom, both Sigma and Tamron should be releasing new 70-200mm F2.8 lenses very soon in the Pentax mount. This will be a bit bigger and heavier, and the Tamron will be $700 and the Sigma probably a little more.
If you want zoom and aren't as worried about low-light ability, the Pentax 50-200mm is fairly affordable (somewhere about $200 I think) and works well, but will not work as well in low light as the more expensive lenses. But depending on the lighting, you might be OK with such a lens and 1600 ISO.