Well he’s got to figure it out at some point.
It won’t work like that. He’ll know well beforehand.
If you’re getting the
dcl transfer from the resort it’ll be weird bc they’ll come to your room and get your bags.
Then you check in at x time and wait around in the lobby for about half an hour. It’s all very very obvious that people are headed to the cruise. And as he figures it out it’ll either be in your room when the bags are picked up or in the lobby.
If you take dme to the airport that’ll seem normal, but you won’t be using rac, so if he’s used to that it’ll seem odd. At some point you’ll put the cruise tags on and he’ll notice that. And once you get off the bus and head to the dcl area that’s when he’ll know. So you’ll be checking in, in public, when he finds out.
If you take private transport I’d they do take a different route or once the vehicle passes the airport he’ll figure it out, and it’ll be in a private vehicle. Which is nice imo.
And if the surprise goes differently than you expect (my son’s reaction was pretty small to our ONE surprise cruise), then you are in private as well. For instance he might be super bummed that Dad isn’t there.
That’s what we did. Worked well.
OP you were right to doubt the CM. That’s not something they do. Our only from-resort transport experience was as concierge passengers. We got there painfully late and especially since it was a three night cruise missing that first hour or two on the ship made us feel behind the 8 ball the whole time. And we had non concierge family that drove in and got in ages before and texted us when they got onboard so that was painful.