My interpretation is that he is in a regular classroom which has special education students included, and which includes a regular ed and special ed teacher........ She asked how many special education students are in the class.........say 4 out of 22 or 8 out of 22. Her concern is how much time the special education teacher has to assist her child. Counting would not be possible, because you don't know who is special education, and you can't - legally. I would think since there is a special education teacher assigned to the class, that you could be told how many students your son's special education teacher is assisting. I don't think that is unethical on their part. I know parents here have found out that information (as the parent of one of the special education students, it would be off limits to the regular ed parents). Different States have different rules. I am sure they have a rule on the maximum number of students this teacher can work with. A concern might be if they don't want to tell her how many students her child shares with, then maybe they are not within their state guidelines. I would also ask the teacher in a more relaxed situation, honest question, how many kids do you asssist ?