Gotcha!
Almost sounds like either you get to find the characters out and about, or look at it more as you are paying for the characters, and not the meal

. I'm sure you've probably already figured that part out though. I have a feeling LOTS of kids and even adults dont really 'eat' at the character meals between just watching what else is going on, taking pictures, meeting the characters and all that fun stuff
Watching a DVD that my niece made of her kids last winter at WDW and more times then not the kids (and grandma) were MUCH more interested in the happenings then the meal.. But that's OK too IMO, it looked like they were having a BLAST and loving it