Something to consider is that NOT having the Deluxe Dining Plan doesn't prevent you from trying lots of foods. It's just a way of ensuring you don't feel guilty about doing so and have it pre-paid.
One thing to consider if you and your son both like lots of variety, I find some the of the most interesting things to be on the Appetizer menus! When my son was 7, he loved adult food too so I totally get where you're coming from with wanting to try lots of different places/lots of variety. I was so glad when he could finally order the adult dining plan because for him, it really was worth it! Since you're a light eater, though, it just might be that no dining plan at all would give you the flexibility you want. You could order 1 adult meal and 1 app plus one dessert for instance...
The Deluxe Dining Plan is not crazy, but it IS a lot of time spent in the restaurants and it does (in my experience) limit the # of apps you will order (bc they are not covered), and increases the # of desserts.
Happy vacationing!
This way is my little man still tied it the kids menu? Or can he order whatever? This is something to think about. Thanks!
Thank you everyone for all the suggestions!
Be sure to think about the time that it takes for all of those TS experiences. Is that how you wan t to spend your time?
People say this all the time, and I don't get it. How long is is taking you to eat? Are you losing half a day eating or something?
Well… we aren't "lingerers" but I bet we spend at least an hour at a TS meal at WDW, and that's without having to wait for a table to be available/ready. Character meal buffets take 60-90 minutes, and we've NEVER spent less than 2 to 2½ hours at a signature meal, so, breakfast at CM, lunch at LTT, dinner at Jiko could take 5 or 6 hours. Of course, there's no way we'd be able to eat that much food, so maybe it would take less time as we wouldn't actually have to eat!OP, considering that you are a small eater and a dining plan will limit your son to the children's menus, I'd skip the dining plan altogether. It's not like the DDP is a discount plan (unless you plan carefully in advance), so it doesn't really save you money. If you are not tied to the dining plan structure, you'll be abel to order what you like, and only what you'll eat. You can even choose an appetizer for your entree, if that's what your appetite level calls for! If you like the "pre-paid" aspect, look at some menus for an idea of what you'd spend in each location and put that money on a Disney gift card. Make your ADRs, charge meals to your room, and pay it off each night. Heck, you could do that in cash, courtesy of the ATM machines in each resort (my bank doesn't charge an atm fee, so no worries there). Given the eating habits you've described, and your son's love of meals and restaurants, I don't know that the DxDP will benefit your family at all.