PrincessBelle39-
Just an idea, but if you're looking for a way to have dinner, but not in one of the parks, our family likes to head over to one of the resorts and have a quick-service meal by the pool. It's relaxing, and you get to experience another resort.
Of course, this wouldn't work at Beach Club or Animal Kingdom, since the pools are not open to registered guests, but the others are. My pick would be Polynesian. The pool is has a volcano slide, and it's right next to the lake. The view is incredible. You can see Wishes (if your there that late) and the Electric Water Pageant, or even just the sunset.
Just a thought.
Susan