princesspwrhr
DIS Veteran
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This (the bolded) is what happened to us 12 years ago. We had a BUYER for our house even. The bank simply stopped replying and answering the phone. Once they decided to foreclose, that was it. We were strung along with false hopes and lies until they had their paperwork in order.Fill out the hardship papers and keep on your lender about getting them processed. I've seen some people save their homes that way, and I've seen others foreclosed on while the lender had them jumping through hoops that turned out to be in vain. I think lenders are more likely to work with you to keep you in your home than they were even a few years ago, and if you're able to resume payments now you are in a good position to take advantage of whatever modification options are offered.
Have you considered bankruptcy? Don't flame me please, but it sound like OP faced financial difficulties beyond her control, and is on the right path now. A chapter 13 bankruptcy would allow you to pay off the arrears over several years. Once you file a bankruptcy, all foreclosure actions will stop immediately. It will affect your credit for a number of years though, and you would pay sky high interest on any loans (autos, etc.) for a long time.
There are a lot of very successful people, including Donald Trump and a number of congressmen, with bankruptcies in their past who used the opportunity to turn their finances around.
Not always true(the part I bolded)- or at least, not true 12 years ago in our situation. We were filing bankruptcy, had a buyer for the house, had been in constant contact with the bank, anything and everything we could do. The bank still foreclosed and even though our discharge papers include the house, the credit reports still listed it as a foreclosure.